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Speaker 1:

While many Americans are facing financial hardships with the country on lockdown, but it can be especially hard for seniors who are now looking to dip into their retirement savings and joining us with some tips on how the help is Steven Sless. Good morning, Steven. How are you today?

Steven Sless:

I’m doing well. Great to be back with you.

Speaker 1:

Really a very frustrating time for so many people and seniors, many of them aren’t wanting to dip into their retirements but are being forced to.

Steven Sless:

They are, and you know, this global pandemic has seniors very concerned about having the dip into their savings and retirement accounts and the fact is, if you’re retired or close to retired, however, most of your wealth is likely in your home equity and so understanding how to tap into your housing wealth strategically and tax efficiently, may be the key to protecting and preserving those other retirement accounts.

Speaker 1:

Is that a good idea right now or should that be a last resort?

Steven Sless:

You know, it’s a great idea to be very strategic and use the housing wealth as a planning tool. Housing wealth is not of loan of last resort. Ideally, you want to incorporate the wealth in your home, which does likely represent the largest portion of your net worth, into your overall retirement plan. There’s many ways to do that. However, currently lending has become very restrictive.

In fact, JP Morgan Chase, one of the nation’s largest mortgage lenders, has suspended all home equity line of credit applications, making it very hard to access wealth right now. It’s important for seniors to understand that they do have options. They need to become empowered. They need to become educated to learn what those options are

Speaker 1:

What are some of those options, Steven?

Steven Sless:

Yeah, so a home equity conversion mortgage is a reverse mortgage. It’s a loan for folks that are over 62 and above and it allows them to access wealth that’s tied up in their home equity, but also to be very strategic about it. And I think one of the big misconceptions about reverse mortgages is you’re giving up home ownership. You’re certainly not. This is a loan that allows you to access the wealth in your home. You can receive funds in a variety of different ways, but you’re not giving up home ownership and so it’s certainly something for folks that are over 62, that are concerned about dipping into their other retirement savings accounts, to look into this product.

Speaker 1:

All right, Steven Sless. Thank you so much for joining us this morning. Really appreciate it.

Steven Sless:

My pleasure. Great to be back with you.

David Holland:

I’ve got some questions for you, but first give us a quick overview of the different types of mortgages that are out there, and then maybe where reverse mortgages fit into that equation.

Steven J. Sless:

Absolutely. So there’s a lot of different ways for a senior home owner to use the wealth in their home to plan a better retirement. The first of which is a reverse mortgage. And we’ll talk about the different options as far as how they can customize and tailor a reverse mortgage specifically to their goals. But there’s also other options. There’s a traditional home equity line of credit. There’s a cash out refinance. And so we really need to evaluate what’s best for that client. How long are they looking to live in the home for? If they’re looking to be there and live in that home for the rest of their life, then we do look more towards a reverse mortgage rather than a traditional home equity line of credit or a cash out refinance.

David Holland:

Okay.

Steven J. Sless:

And then within reverse mortgages, there’s a few different ways that they can choose to access their funds. The first of which is a line of credit. So somebody who doesn’t necessarily need the money right now, most of the time that is a homeowner in their 60s, that’s doing okay. Maybe they’re working, maybe they’re not, but they’re not yet to the point where medical costs start to creep in, longterm care needs start to creep in, but they can set up this line of credit that’s going to grow for them over time. So when they are in their 70s or in their 80s or in their 90s, people are living a lot longer nowadays-

David Holland:

Sure.

Steven J. Sless:

… they have this wealth that they’ve been growing over time that they have access to.

David Holland:

Okay.

Steven J. Sless:

There’s also a tenure where they’re getting a check every month for the rest of their life. Most of the time, that’s going to be a homeowner that does need a cashflow influx. And there’s a term payment. So they tell me, “Steve, hey, I want to receive funds for the next 10 years.” And I say, “Okay, here’s how much money you qualify for.” We divide that number by 10 years and they’re receiving a check each and every month until that time is up. And there’s also a lump sum. And the lump sum is more for those who have an immediate use for cash.

Speaker 1:

Live from WBFF Baltimore, this is Fox 45, Good Day Baltimore.

Speaker 2:

Well many older Americans still worry if they have saved enough money to relax and live peacefully after retirement. How you can efficiently save your money and fund your longevity. 9:21 is the time, you’re watching Fox 45, Good Day Baltimore.

If you are like many older Americans, you have worked hard and you’ve saved money, but you may still have concerns about having enough to live comfortably throughout your entire retirement. So here to break down some of the options, reverse mortgage expert, Steven Sless with Primary Residential Mortgage joining us this morning. Good morning.

Steven Sless:

Good morning.

Speaker 2:

So this is a concern a lot of people have. So when we talk about reverse mortgages, explain exactly what that is.

Steven Sless:

Yeah, I think reverse mortgage is probably the most misunderstood type of mortgage product that’s on the market today. And it’s quite simple, a reverse mortgage is a loan that’s designed for senior homeowners to allow them to age in place and being able to get their hands on some of the equity in their home that they’ve put into the home over the years by making a monthly mortgage payment. So a reverse mortgage now makes those funds accessible and they can be received over a variety of different ways.

Speaker 2:

So is that a good option for everyone or are there pros and cons to it?

Steven Sless:

That’s a great question. So we always look at suitability. It’s not a loan that’s for everyone, but for the right senior homeowner, it is a fantastic program that will allow them to retire on their terms with more peace of mind and financial security.

Speaker 2:

Is it something that the homeowner who may be looking to do that needs to consider just for themselves, or do they have to take their family into consideration because then what happens to that loan beyond what they may be able to…

Steven Sless:

Right. Yeah, we always encourage the involvement of adult children, other family members, loved ones and even wealth advisors and advisors that are going to look at finances from a holistic standpoint. We certainly encourage to bring everybody into the conversation because it is a decision that is an important one and if you do have a loved one or an advisor that helps coach you along the way, we want to speak to them as well.

Speaker 2:

But it can give you peace of mind at that point in your life. What does make someone a good candidate for that? I guess some of that, does it have to do with the amount of equity you have in your home?

Steven Sless:

So you’ve got to have about 50% equity and most of our clients look a little something like this, right? They’ve worked hard their whole life, they’ve saved money, yet the bulk portion of their net worth lies in their home equity. And so we help educate them how to tap into that equity and convert that equity into tangible funds.

Speaker 2:

Okay, a lot of people may have questions as they’re listening to you all now. You have an event coming up that could help to answer some of those?

Steven Sless:

We do, it’s called retirement on your terms, straight talk real solutions. It’s November 9th, it’s Saturday morning at Martin’s West. We’re bringing in three other dynamic power players in the retirement planning industry with the hope of being able to have a day of education, empowerment and to get peace of mind in retirement.

Speaker 2:

Just quickly, where do they find that information?

Steven Sless:

Baltimoreretirement.com.

Speaker 2:

That’s easy.

Steven Sless:

Simple enough, right?

Speaker 2:

Thank you, Steven, I appreciate it.

Steven Sless:

Absolutely, thank you.

Megan:

… questions you might have. The new year we know is just two days away. Now is the time to start thinking clearly, getting serious about planning for your future. Reverse mortgage expert with Primary Residential Mortgage Incorporated, Steven Sless, is joining us here this morning. Thank you so much for coming in.

Steven Sless:

Thank you, Megan. Happy new year.

Megan:

Happy new year. This is an option for the seniors out there. When we were talking about reverse mortgage, it was a little foreign to me. I wasn’t exactly sure what it was, and you said that’s why you’re here.

Steven Sless:

Absolutely. Yeah. Reverse mortgage … look for seniors that are especially … it’s new year’s time; it’s time to make new year’s resolutions. If retirement and planning for a stronger retirement is part of your new year’s resolutions, looking into a reverse mortgage could be a great way to protect and preserve your overall retirement portfolio.

Megan:

How does it work?

Steven Sless:

Yeah. Look, seniors across America have amassed almost $7.2 trillion in housing wealth, in home equity. That’s a staggering number. How do you now incorporate that home equity into your overall retirement plan? You always hear all the time what’s your retirement number? How much do you need for retirement? There’s no magical number. It’s really how you draw the money that you have. You have all this housing wealth, now how do you incorporate this wealth into your retirement plan? A reverse mortgage could be a way to do that. And there’s some ways to take the money out of your home with the reverse mortgage that we’ll talk about as well.

Megan:

Okay. I was a little scared, because I thought right away, is this dangerous? Is this risky? Because after 62, you want to have some things that are a little more safe.

Steven Sless:

Sure. Well, the home is where the heart is, right? And for people who’ve lived in their home for 10, 20, 30, 40 years in some cases, you want to make sure that you’re not just depleting your equity. I think the big misconception is if I take a reverse mortgage, I’m going to leave less to my heirs, and that’s not the case. If you marry the equity in your home with your other retirement assets, now you can create a stronger retirement plan.

Megan:

So then what happens to the actual mortgage?

Steven Sless:

The reverse mortgage will replace a current mortgage that you have now. And the reverse mortgage provides three key factors, liquidity, accessibility, and flexibility. And so you’re able to strategically draw the wealth in your home. We’re not talking about just cashing out your house and having a big pile of money.

Megan:

Right. That would seem very scary.

Steven Sless:

The funds from a reverse mortgage can be taken in a tenure payment, which is a lifetime check paid to you from the wealth in your home, a term, so over a set period of time, a lump sum or a line of credit. It really comes down to what works best for you and your overall retirement plan. That’s where we come in. We look at what you have and we figure out what’s going to work best.

Megan:

You got to sit down with an expert and look at your plan and your future. Thank you so much. Some great ideas. Something to think about, of course, as we’re planning and getting things in track for 2020.

Speaker 1:

While some older adults might be looking to move into a new house, either to downsize or maybe be near family, but they might be missing out on an important program when it comes to buying their home and reverse mortgage expert, Steven Sless is joining us this morning. Good morning.

Steven Sless:

Good morning. Great to be back.

Speaker 1:

Well, thanks for coming in. So when is this a good idea to explore a reverse mortgage?

Steven Sless:

Yeah. So look, rates are at all time lows. We’re coming into a spring buying season. And for folks that are 62 years of age or older, there’s a better way to buy versus paying cash or with a traditional mortgage. And so seniors that are 62 and older can purchase their next home with what’s called a HECM for purchase or a home equity conversion mortgage for purchase. And what that enables them to do is pay a one-time 50% down payment and that’s it. That’s all they ever pay. Right?

Speaker 1:

They’re not paying the principal. They’re not paying interest. They’re-

Steven Sless:

Well, they’re deferring payback until they leave the home right? And so their responsibilities are taxes and insurance, but there’s no mandatory monthly payment. And so they can treat it as a traditional mortgage if they want to and they can make monthly mortgage payments, but they don’t have to. And so from a cashflow perspective, what could they do with that extra money? They could fund longterm care. They could invest it, or they could just put it into their retirement nest egg to protect and prolong their overall retirement portfolio.

Speaker 1:

But you still have to come up with it when you sell the house. Is that right?

Steven Sless:

Well, you have to pay it back when you leave the home. So when you leave the house, let’s say you pass away, you pass the house to your heirs, they still get the house. You still own the house in this program. And so you pass the house to your heirs, they’re going to sell the house. They’re going to pay back the money that you borrowed, which is that other 50% plus interest. If there’s any equity left, that equity is theirs to keep. If there’s not, these loans are federally insured. And so you’re guaranteed never to pass on any debt to your heirs or to your estate.

Speaker 1:

So if someone’s interested in doing something like this, what is sort of the first step?

Steven Sless:

The first step is become empowered and become educated. This is a fantastic product for the right person. Ideally, you want to be able to live in the house for a long time. If you’re looking to buy a house as an investment property, it’s not the right fit. If you’re only looking to be there for the next five or so years, it’s not the right fit. But for somebody that wants to either upsize, downsize, or rightsize their home in retirement, just to buy a house more suited to age in place. As you’re growing older, maybe you want a house on one floor, but become empowered, become educated, learn about all the potential products that are out there for you. You may find this is going to be the best fit.

Speaker 1:

All right. And if someone wants to talk to you directly, where should they go?

Steven Sless:

They should visit our website, reversebaltimore.com or give us a call (410) 814-7575.

Speaker 1:

All right, Steven thanks for coming in.

Steven Sless:

Always a pleasure.

Speaker 1:

You’re welcome.

Michael Banner:

Welcome, everybody to tonight’s latest episode of 62 Who Knew? We’re just a few days away from Thanksgiving. And regardless of all the weird things that have happened in 2020, we have a lot to be thankful for. 

And tonight is something we’ve been talking about since before COVID-19, which is switching the premise of this show. And we’re not switching it that much, but we are making some very important changes. As of tonight, 62 Who Knew? is now 62 Who Knew? The Longevity Initiative. We are also going from one guest per week to a panel of anywhere from two to four guests. Tonight is three. Usually a group of national experts covering the topic that we are going to be covering that particular week. And each week that topic will be the ability for people to come into their retirement segment of their life or people that are already there to live with a higher quality of life throughout their remaining years. And with longer lifespans today, that is a very timely and relevant topic.

Now, we have built up to a high of about 80,000 viewers per week. But with COVID-19 and us having to do certain things and social distance, and I wasn’t able to make it to the studio, we’ve dropped those numbers a little, but still are between 30,000 and 40,000 views per week. I want to thank our audience for that. 

For any new people that are listening for the first time, let me give you just a quick premise, because I don’t want to keep our three panelists waiting. But just a quick premise of what 62 Who Knew? is. As we all approach the age of 62, hopefully even before that, but most certainly when 62 is on our radar, we all have the same thoughts, “Should we have our house paid off? Should we take social security? Should we defer it? How much longer do we want to work? How much longer do we have to work? Do we still need our life insurance that we bought when the children were younger? The children are now gone. They’re on their own. Do we need long-term care insurance? Should we be investing in the stock market? Should we be purchasing annuities?” The questions are endless. And what’s unique about these questions, is that all fathers and mothers asked the same questions. Their fathers and mothers asked the same exact questions. 

But my generation, I’m 62 now, our generation, the baby boomer generation has one more hurdle that no previous generation has ever faced before. And what is that hurdle? That hurdle is the double edge sword of longer lifespans. In today’s world, according to the American Medical Association, and specifically in the United States of America, if you make it to 62, make it, notice, I didn’t say in good health, if you simply make it to the age of 62, you have a 50/50 chance of making it to 90. Okay? If you’re in a married couple, there is almost a 50% chance that one of you are going to make it into the low to mid-nineties. And with different medical and scientific breakthroughs of the last two to three decades, no generation has ever had to face, “Should I retire, but I still have 30 years. I still have half the time I’ve been here, to still be here.”

And the truth is, the sad truth, that less than 1% of this great country can actually live from 62 to 92 on what they’ve saved, on their cash reserves, on their portfolio. So, the purpose of 62 Who Knew? is to bring on different experts every week. And we’ve been doing it for a year and a half. And it’s been very successful. As I said, we’re switching to a panel now, and to cover more topics, more specifically from different angles. Every week, we have a topic that is going to help people get from 62 to 92 with quality and dignity as the way it should be for our moms, our dads, our grandmothers, and our grandfathers. So, that is the purpose of 62 Who Knew? 

I don’t want to take any more time right now. I want to get our three panelists going, because the topic tonight is a sensitive one in our industries. As you all know, 62 Who Knew? most popular topic in the last 18 months, has been long-term care insurance. The second most popular topic has been Alzheimer’s and different types of dementias. We’ve had national leaders on that topic. The third, reverse mortgages. And the fourth, Medicare and its related subjects.

Tonight, our topic is why haven’t the reverse mortgage world, the equity world and the long-term care insurance world joined forces. We talk about it. We write about it. But why haven’t these two industries that serve the same exact group joined together to help the millions. And make no mistake, it is millions of seniors, who otherwise think they can’t afford a high quality of long-term care insurance, which if a lot of people had, they would have been in a lot better shape for the last nine months during COVID-19. So, I promised you a timely and relevant topic, and here it is. 

Now, let’s introduce our expert panel. The first person I’d like to introduce is Mr. Steven Sless. Steven, this is your fourth time on the show. So, Steven is well-known to us. Steven is a well-known national expert in the reverse mortgage world. He is the founder of the Steven Sless Group, as you can see behind him. And he is in charge of the reverse mortgage division of a national reverse mortgage and forward mortgage company, PRMI.

On the lower left corner, if you’re seeing things the way I am, we have Mr. Bill Comfort, president of Comfort Insurance. But more even importantly, Bill, even though he doesn’t like it when I say this, is well known, so well known as one of the most eloquent speakers, knowledgeable speakers in the long-term care insurance industry. There is not anyone that doesn’t listen to Bill speak and learn every day that he does something. He is also one of the most popular, if not the most popular instructors in the CLTC certification, which the best long-term care insurance people in the country all have that certification. And Bill has been here before, and we welcome you back. Now, Mr. Demarkey, this is your first time I’m on the show, correct? 

Joe Demarkey:

Correct. 

Michael Banner:

Oh, I’m not hearing, Joe. [inaudible 00:08:07]. Hello? No, we’re not hearing Joe, John. But while you fix the volume, Mr. Joe Demarkey, is the director of special projects of Reverse Mortgage Funding located in New Jersey, one of the largest wholesale and national reverse mortgage companies in the country. And he is also on the board of directors, and has been one of the key players for the last decade or more in NRMLA, the National Reverse Mortgage Lending Association. If anyone has his hand on the pace or the pulse of the national reverse mortgage world, it is Joe Demarkey. Welcome to, 62 Who Knew? my friend. 

Joe Demarkey:

Thanks, Michael. 

Michael Banner:

All right. John, I don’t know if you can hear them. Bill and Steve, say hello, and see if I can hear you.

Steven Sless:

Hey, everybody. 

Bill Comfort:

Hi, Michael. I’m glad to be here again. Excuse me.

Michael Banner:

I hope you guys can hear, because I’m not hearing anybody. A minor technology glitch. We’re good? Technology glitch. We have a whole team of people here to help. 

Bill Comfort:

But it’s work is great. 

Michael Banner:

Oh, there we go. There’s my team. So, they’re like my fan club. My fan club broke up last week. The guy died. Okay. So, that was my video team helping me right there. All right. Well, now I can hear you.

Gentlemen, welcome. Our first panel show, simulcast into a podcast on several different platforms in the next couple of weeks here going forward. We’re going to be not only a national TV show, but a national podcast. So, thank you. I mean, you’re each exceptional people in your own right and in our industries. Thank you for being here really, and truly.

Steven Sless:

Thank you, Michael. 

Joe Demarkey:

Thank you, Michael. 

Michael Banner:

So, let’s get into this. The long-term care insurance world serves people like no other. Second only, or I would say probably first, we might be second only, Joe and Steve to longterm care insurance. Reverse mortgages can be used, equity can be used to help people afford long-term care insurance. Reverse mortgages can be used to eliminate their current mortgage payment. I think Bill, you have some examples of that. Yet, although we talk about it, we write about it, Bill, you and I have spoken about it at many long-term care national conventions. 

I don’t think there is a reverse mortgage person that has spoken at more long-term care conventions than myself in the last 10 to 12 years. Joe Demarkey and I, and other people in reverse mortgage funding have certainly been talking about it for at least a decade. Steven Sless, for the last several years that we know each other. I’m going to ask you your opinion. And I’m going to start with Bill, the long-term care insurance expert. Why haven’t our industries clicked? Why haven’t we wrapped our arms around each other and fell in love with each other yet? We’re not even dating.

Bill Comfort:

All right. Well, I think it’s not just the long-term care insurance business, which I specialize in, but let me answer that question in referring to financial services, financial advising, financial planning, most broadly as you’ve discussed many times on your show, Michael. Historically, and this is looking back a number of years, there’s a lot of skepticism about reverse mortgages. It was seen as dollars of last resort, only for people who had no other option to do anything with, and various criticisms of the product. And I assume, we’ll talk a little bit about how that’s changed and evolved in a very positive way for consumers. But I think it starts with the financial services industry broadly, not seeing reverse mortgages as a legitimate equity tool, a legitimate way to access a resource, an asset, which is the equity that seniors have built into their homes. And that’s changing.

Michael Banner:

It is.

Bill Comfort:

So, the question is why have we not embraced, the two industries embraced each other up before? There’s been a standoffishness that that’s some separate decision. But what we’re seeing is from a financial planning standpoint, it’s being recognized almost as a separate asset class in terms of diversification and liquidity, and flexibility. And it can be used to help find source dollars to pay for other needed coverage that protects even more than just the equity in the home, the entire financial security of a person, a couple and a family, and that would be through long-term care insurance. And I think it’s a great place to start because long-term care insurance expands the value from using reverse mortgage proceeds to help pay for necessary needed coverage that can do much more than just a person’s own money on their own. 

Michael Banner:

Exactly.

Bill Comfort:

So, I think that it’s changing rapidly from a couple of different levels. But what we need to do is we need to make that introduction. We need to have that first date and begin working this out.

Michael Banner:

Steven, as always, Bill put it eloquently, but your opinion on why, because you’re one of the… I have to say, everybody is younger than me. In fact, I’m the oldest person on the screen. And that’s annoying. But you’re young blood, even though you’ve been doing this for years. And you’re out there doing the education. You’re part of NRMLA, which we’re going to talk to Joe about. Same question to you, why haven’t these two industries just fell in love with each other, love at first sight? Is it that hesitation that Bill is talking about?

Steven Sless:

I think Bill hit the nail right on the head. For years, reverse mortgages have been viewed by the financial planning community as loans of last resort, but that’s changing and it’s changing quickly. We, today, now have a lot of retirement researchers, folks that have no interest in the long-term care industry or the reverse mortgage industry. They study retirement planning. They’re PhDs. They have alphabet soup next to their name. They have all the credentials that warrant listening to these folks. And what they’re saying is, pay attention to long-term care, pay attention to reverse mortgages. These are critical tools that can be used to fund a better retirement and to be able to age safely in place. And I think that is starting to change rapidly. 

Now, I last year received the CLTC accreditation. And I took Bill’s course, and I learned so much about long-term care that I had… I thought that I understood long-term care until I took the CLTC course. I think more folks in our industry need to learn more about the long-term care industry and vice versa. 

Michael Banner:

Yes.

Steven Sless:

If this is going to be a long-lasting marriage, I think we need to understand the intricacies of the products, how many different products there are out there. I was blown away at how many long-term care options there are, how many viable options there are for folks to be able to age in place, not only with long-term care insurance, but what some of these hybrid insurance policies. And so, I think there’s more education to be done, but I’m confident both of our industries are on the verge and on the cusp of really joining forces. And Michael, it starts here tonight with this show.

Michael Banner:

I hope so. Mr. Demarkey, your first words of wisdom on 62 Who Knew? Joe is a person, I have to say, I don’t want to embarrass Joe, but there are less than five people, I mean, I know many reverse mortgage people, just like I know many long-term care insurance people, but there are maybe four or five people in the nation that when they talk, I shut up and listen. And Joe Demarkey is one of those people, I have just an utmost respect and admiration for him. Joe, what do you see from NRMLA’s point of view, from the national point of view, from our favorite wholesale lender there, what do you see in comparison to what they’re saying right now?

Joe Demarkey:

So, I think they both got it right. There’s more conversation taking place between the reverse mortgage industry, and let’s call it the financial advisory industry. There’s been an enormous amount of academic research that has been done on reverse mortgages by the financial planning industry over the past three, four, five, six years.

To the financial advisors who might be watching and listening, I would encourage you to go to your publications, your trade publications, like the Journal of Financial Planning, and look for those research articles that have already been published by academia on the efficacy of reverse mortgages and how they can help ensure a much higher degree of success for your clients and their retirement plans. 

One of the things that I’ve always struggled with since I’ve been in the banking and mortgage banking industries, is why people have an adverse reaction when they think about borrowing money, specifically with a mortgage loan of any kind, whether it’s a conventional mortgage or reverse mortgage. Debt makes the world go round. And people borrow money every single day in our country, whether it’s purchasing a new home, whether it’s purchasing a new car, whether it’s buying groceries and you’re swiping your credit card. 

So, debt is an important part of everybody’s financial health. And mortgages and reverse mortgages certainly have their place in helping people manage their finances even through their retirement years. And here’s one of my favorite statistics, because people always ask questions about whether or not I should be debt-free on my house when I go into retirement. 

Two years ago in 2018, The Ohio State University, I’m sorry, Michael, recently published a study where over two and a half million people applied for a mortgage loan of some kind in our country. That’s a two and a half million people are borrowing money against their homes, who are aged 62 or older. So, are people borrowing money in retirement? Yes. Are people borrowing money against their homes in retirement? Absolutely. Two and a half million of them. 

Michael Banner:

Yes. 

Joe Demarkey:

So, people are using debt to improve their overall financial health, whether they need to take money out of their home to do something with, buy a new car, finance home improvements, maybe make their house more appropriate for their age. As we get older, sometimes our health declines a little bit. Maybe you need to make some necessary home modifications to your house, so that you can age there and you can live there, live the quality of life that you want to, or maybe you’re just refinancing your debt and you’re improving your financial situation because interest rates are low right now.

Michael Banner:

Yes, they’re.

Joe Demarkey:

And you’re either lowering your monthly payment or, Michael, maybe they’re actually exploring a reverse mortgage to borrow money, to improve your financial health and to help you age in place. And Michael, I love what we talked about the other day. Since the outset of the pandemic, most people in our country who are retired or near retirement are starting to think differently about that old cliché of aging in place. Now, it’s aging in a safe place. 

Michael Banner:

Absolutely. 

Joe Demarkey:

This demographic is right in the crosshairs of COVID. And the last thing that most older homeowners want to do is be forced to leave their existing home and move into a facility while there’s a pandemic going on in our country. And that’s why, and Steve can attest to this, we’ve seen an increase in people inquiring about reverse mortgages in our countries since the outset of the pandemic back in March.

Michael Banner:

Absolutely. Yeah. I know. Bill, would you like to show a couple of examples? I still have more to talk about with the perception, like you had said, Bill, of the reverse mortgage. We’ve tried hard, not just Steven and myself, and Joe, and help from outside industries like long-term care, we’ve tried very, very hard to change that perception. And some might say we’re doing a good job. And some might say it’s like pushing a wet tissue up a hill. Because we have a lot of detractors out there, who still as wrong as they are, still won’t let up. And I’m talking about, let’s face it, some large people. 

And I’m not going to be afraid to mention them on this particular show. Because we have Dave Ramsey, with hundreds of thousands of followers. Dave Ramsey, you couldn’t crowd the head of a pin with what Dave Ramsey actually knows about reverse mortgages, but he consistently says they’re dangerous and you can lose your house, which obviously you can’t, as long as you pay your taxes and insurance, which, wow, that sounds familiar. That’s like a regular mortgage. Isn’t that incredible? 

You have people like CNN and USA Today, newspapers and consumer digest. It seems like they just want to hurt us every six to eight weeks. How do we as an industry, and I’m directing this right now, more towards Joe and Stephen, as an industry combat that? I mean, I know a few times I’ve had a temper tantrum on LinkedIn, and that said to all my friends on LinkedIn, “Look guys, if the big boys, and let’s just say it, if the big boys don’t want to do it, maybe for legal reasons or whatever their reasons may be, why don’t the Mike Banners and the Steve Sless get together.” And I’ve put this on LinkedIn several times. Nobody likes the idea. Each put up 250 or 500 bucks, change money, pocket money. But let’s have 20 of us do it, and take out a $10,000 ad in USA Today that says, “They’re wrong. This is a great thing.” How as an industry, are we going to change that perception? Stephen, Joe?

Steven Sless:

I think Michael, I think the perception is changing, right? As there is more academic research come out.

Michael Banner:

It is. 

Steven Sless:

And as we share that academic research, I think the perception is changing. But folks like Dave Ramsey, Susie Orman, is another one, these folks they’re personalities, and they have an agenda, right? If you think Dave Ramsey or Susie Orman, are great financial minds, you’re kidding yourself. 

Michael Banner:

That’s right.

Steven Sless:

They have an agenda. Their agenda is get as many clicks, get as many likes and get as many people to buy their services and products as they possibly can. And so, they’re intentionally controversial. Unfortunately, in doing so, they’re harming the people that they claim to be helping so much.

Michael Banner:

Exactly.

Steven Sless:

What we can do as an industry is to continue to show the facts. The facts don’t lie. And we can present modeling and say, “Look, here’s what your retirement looks like with a reverse mortgage. Here’s what it looks like without a reverse mortgage.” And the fact of the matter is, if you call yourself a fiduciary, and there’s a lot of financial advisors out there that are going to that term fiduciary, that means that you must have your client’s best interest in mind. There is no way that you can ignore what’s in most cases, their largest asset, and totally just put off even entertaining or learning about what a reverse mortgage is, if you’re truly putting your client’s best interest first. It’s impossible. Folks that are 62 plus, for most of them, the majority of their net worth lies within their home equity. 

Michael Banner:

Exactly. 

Steven Sless:

The house is a low growth potential asset. There are other higher growth potential assets such as stocks, what’s in your retirement portfolio. And so, you have to look at this from a very holistic standpoint. You got to take into consideration that, look, if your house is only going to go up, 2%, 3%, maybe 4% per year, what can I make on my other retirement investments? And then how can I protect and preserve those investments by leveraging? And Joe, said borrowing before. I’d rather call it leveraging. Because the most astute and savvy financial investors understand one thing better than anybody else out there. And that’s why they’re so successful. They understand leverage. It’s how they built their businesses. It’s why they’re successful. You’re leveraging one of your largest assets to make your overall pool of money larger. 

And if we continue to beat that drum and explain to folks why it’s so important to entertain using the housing wealth, forget Dave Ramsey and Susie Orman, it’s going to get to the point where their opinion doesn’t even matter anymore. 

Michael Banner:

I agree with that. 

Steven Sless:

We need to continue to present the facts.

Michael Banner:

Right. And Bill, how are we going to… Well, I’m going to ask a question and it’s going to seem like I’m going off on a tangent, but I’m not. I promise I’ll draw it back in. I’m going to ask a question to the three of you. Bill, you’re the first person. You’re all going to get the same question. What are the three most powerful words in the world? Bill, you’re first.

Bill Comfort:

Drawing from my business, from my profession and what motivates people to take action with life insurance and disability, and long-term care insurance, I would answer the question and say the three most powerful words are, I love you. 

Michael Banner:

Well, I love you too. But answer the-

Bill Comfort:

And I care about you. I mean, we have to take care of ourself, be responsible for ourselves. But when we have a spouse, we have a partner, we have kids, these are people that we’ve invited in a sense into our lives, and have a responsibility to them as well. And good retirement planning, good investment planning, and from my perspective, from my specialty, good extended care, long-term care planning, it’s not about paying for your care, which it will. It’s about protecting those people who you love.

Michael Banner:

Exactly. Joe, my question for you, what’s the three most powerful words in the world?

Joe Demarkey:

Make informed decisions. 

Michael Banner:

Oh, I like that. I like that. 

Joe Demarkey:

I try and teach that to my kids. My wife and I talk about it all the time. Talk about it with my extended family and friends. And when it comes to any aspect of your life, don’t make knee-jerk decisions.

Michael Banner:

Right.

Joe Demarkey:

Be thoughtful and learn as much as you can. And just make informed decisions, would be my answer.

Michael Banner:

No one’s ever answered that question that way. Figures you’d be original. Steven Sless, what are the most three powerful words in the world? 

Steven Sless:

Look, I can’t beat Bill’s, I love you. I mean, what’s more powerful than that?

Michael Banner:

I love you too, but answer the question.

Steven Sless:

Yeah. To me, I can tell you one word that we throw out there all the time, and that’s empowerment. It just become empowered, become educated, become well-informed. If that, whether that’s one of the most important words or one of the three most important words, I don’t know, but it’s something we try to reinforce all the time is empowerment. What you don’t know can hurt you. Right?

Michael Banner:

Yep.

Steven Sless:

And so, understanding all aspects of not only retirement planning, but just general life things. I mean, become empowered, take the knowledge in and really understand before you make a well-informed decision.

Michael Banner:

All right, I’m going to bring this back to why I asked the question and I’m going to give you my answer to the question. And then we’re going to spend then just a few minutes on this topic, again, of changing what people think about us. And then we’re going to go on to the more positive giving examples and talking about how we can really help millions of seniors have a better life. 

To me, the most powerful three words in the world are always, it’s not even close. Well, I love you, was a close second. Is perception beats reality. There is no exception to that rule. If a young baby thinks holding this blue blanket is going to make them sleep, you hand them a yellow blanket, they don’t sleep. Full adults, want their rabbits or have their lucky pan, or whatever it may be, perception beats reality. And I don’t want to beat this to death, but I want to talk about this. 

In your industry, Bill, you and I know people with thousands, if not tens of thousands of agents, that actually thinks it’s against the law, that they could lose their insurance license, if they even bring up the two evil words of reverse mortgages. And Steven and Joe, in our own industry, when I marketed this show today and said what the topic was, I got hit, “So, Banner, what are you crazy? You can’t do that. That’s off limits.” We’ve got to change this perception. And yes, it starts here. And we’ve already talked about a few things. 

But now I want to go to Bill, what do we have to do, other than send them a copy of this show? What do we have to do to change that perception? Because there’s hundreds of thousands, well, there’s six million insurance agents in this country. Is that amazing? Six million. A couple of million of them sell the type of insurance, I mean, that’s right from the websites. A couple of million of them sell homeowners warranties, which are considered insurance and things such as that, that have nothing to do with what a Bill Comfort, or Mark Goldberg, or a Peter Bingel Blackstone. Of the four million left, quite frankly, there is a couple of million that do life insurance, annuities and all sorts of products. 

But there are literally hundreds of thousands of long-term care insurance agents. How do we get to them? Do we come… Of course, with COVID-19, let’s take that out of the picture. I’m not speaking at large long-term care conventions. No one is speaking anywhere nowadays. But once this is behind us, Bill, in your opinion, should there be major reverse mortgage players at every long-term care insurance event screaming this, like you said, Steve beating the drum, screaming this from the rooftops? Because I’ve been screaming it for 10 years and I’m losing my voice.

Bill Comfort:

And vice versa, Michael. 

Michael Banner:

Yes.

Bill Comfort:

There need to be long-term care insurance companies, representatives, planners like me at reverse mortgage meetings. We need to get to know each other. Michael, you and I have been talking about this for years. And then Steven, when you were in the class a year ago, I mean, we spent more time in class around the subject. And everyone, these other planners, fee-based fiduciary planners, you could see them, “Yeah. That’s not really, that doesn’t fit.” And within two minutes, probably, of connecting talking, and you sharing your expertise on what the product does, was just amazing how everybody started picking up, “Well, could you do this? Could you do that? Could you take the proceeds and buy a policy and what kind of policy would be best?”

And we just have to start doing that. So, yeah, we need reverse mortgage people at long-term care insurance conferences and vice versa. What we need more than anything else, and this is one of my mantras, is too many agents and financial advisors up until now have pretty much waited for people to ask to buy long-term care insurance. 

Michael Banner:

Yes. 

Bill Comfort:

To say, “Okay. We just put mom in assisted living after taking care of her home for four years, and it ain’t about wreck the family and all our relationships, I guess we better look at this.” But what has to happen is, good agents, good advisors have to bring the subject to up, and guess what? It’s a hard conversation. This hit me this morning. I posted something on LinkedIn, and I was relating that, that yeah, it’s a hard conversation because it’s emotional. 

Michael Banner:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Bill Comfort:

Nobody wants to think about getting old and needing care. But if you don’t have a plan, if you don’t have the funding to pay for care, it literally will wreck everything else. And here’s the little play on words that hit me this morning is, yes, it’s a hard conversation, but it’s a heart conversation. 

Michael Banner:

I like that. 

Bill Comfort:

And planners need to be connecting with what’s important to their clients. And how do we solve these problems? Now, once, and I believe that most agents, financial planners, advisors, fee-based, however, fiduciary, whatever labels are out there, most of them really do care about what’s best for their clients. 

Michael Banner:

I agree with that. Absolutely. 

Bill Comfort:

But we have to get them past their conventional wisdom, which is not wise, both on long-term care insurance and reverse mortgages. And holy cow, what if we could start to find ways to pay for more coverage for folks without it compromising other lifestyle issues. So, I think it’s happening. The insurance industry has to see reverse mortgages as the powerful, flexible tool that it is. And the reverse mortgage industry, I think broadly has to be open to our clients. Our mortgagees have to be able to use this money that they get any way they want to, not just to remodel the house or pay a bill here or there, because they don’t have any money anywhere else.

Michael Banner:

That’s exactly right. Joe, from a huge wholesale lender, well, of course you’re a huge retail company as well, what do you feel about that perception or the concept of a large lender attending long-term care? I mean, you and I had a ball at an in-home care show several years ago. But what about a large lender taking part in long-term care events throughout the country? Is it time?

Joe Demarkey:

Of course, we should. We’re serving the same demographic. And the more that folks like Bill and his peers understand what we do, and the more that Steven and I, and you understand what their industry does, the better off we’re all going to be. 

At the end of the day, we’re trying to provide financial products and services to a growing demographic in our country, who needs or wants something. And it’s funny, Michael, you and I have talked about this before. I’ve been a banker and a mortgage banker now for my entire career, which is longer than I want to admit, but coming up on 35 years, and I’ve never seen a more brilliantly designed residential mortgage loan in the country than a reverse mortgage. 

Michael Banner:

So true.

Joe Demarkey:

At the same time, it is also the one that is most misunderstood. And we need to teach people like we’re doing today, right now, we need to teach people, back to Stephen’s point from before, forget about what detractors say, just talk about the facts. 

Michael Banner:

That’s right. 

Joe Demarkey:

Teach people about how mortgages work, how home equity lines of credit work, how reverse mortgages work. And let people make an informed decision. What folks like Bill and the financial planning community learn the facts about all types of residential mortgage loans, and they’ll help their clients make informed decisions. 

Michael Banner:

All right. Steven, what can you add to this? And then I know Bill, you have some actual examples of what we can do for our mutual clients, but Steven?

Steven Sless:

Yeah. So, like we mentioned before, I took Bill’s CLTC course last year. And bill, if you remember, there was probably, I don’t know, 15, maybe 17 financial advisors from all across the country that came into the class. I happened to be the only reverse mortgage professional in the class. And in talking to them, and having conversations with them in the class and both out of the class, grabbing a bite after the class and just talking about how we help each other’s clients, I’ve got, I don’t know, five or six referrals. And these were folks that would have never been helped in the way that they were helped, if not for us joining forces, and me engaging with your community, and your community accepting my conversation about reverse mortgages.

Because if you remember, when I first started talking about reverse mortgages, everybody was on the front of their seats. And by the time I got done, they were on the back of their seats. They were like, “You know what? This really makes a lot of sense.” To Joe’s point, there is no mortgage product in the country, in any other country that I can think of that has the flexibility of reverse mortgage, that provides everything that a reverse mortgage provides in liquidity, accessibility and flexibility. And it is the safest mortgage product on the market today, because it’s federally insured. It’s the most heavily regulated mortgage product that there is, hands down, and it’s not even close. These are safe financial tools, that are not designed to be a loan of last resort, that are meant to be used as a strategic tool to help fund a better retirement, to help free up funds for long-term care, to help our clients age in place.

And it is time, I know we talked about it starting tonight. We’re working on pushing out a lot of content. We’re developing shows just like you are Michael, video series, podcast. I think both long-term care industry and the reverse mortgage industry, it’s just, I think we’ve dropped the ball when it comes to marketing directly to the consumer. We can’t rely on business to business relationships. The message has to get out to the consumer, these are all safe products. 

Now, I’m not saying that a reverse mortgage is for everybody. I’m not saying long-term care insurance is for everybody, but they are for a lot of folks who wouldn’t think they are for them. And they need to get educated. But they’re not going to get educated unless they have a wide array of education provided to them.

Michael Banner:

Absolutely. I know this is going to sound weird, when you and Joe talk about that it’s the best design mortgage in the country, as weird as this sounds, I swear it gives me the chills, because it is. 

Steven Sless:

It is.

Michael Banner:

And it truly is. And it’s the most misunderstood. It’s surrounded by half-truths and misinformation. And I hope before I retire, we have a small hand in changing that perception. But Bill, I know you have some actual examples for us. 

Bill Comfort:

Sure, I do. But I want to turn the questioning around a little bit, because I want to raise the question that it’s one of those perceptions in my industry and I think in yours as well. So, before we look at some examples of what could be done, just as an example, let’s get right on the table right now, and answer to this question. And Joe, maybe to start with you from the top down, can a consumer take a reverse mortgage in whatever payout form it might be, just generally, and use those proceeds or use the extra financial flexibility they have to purchase other financial products? In this example, specifically, can they use the reverse mortgage to buy long-term care insurance? Is that allowed?

Joe Demarkey:

Of course, it is. The only issues for the reverse mortgage industry and answering your question Bill, is that there’s a regulation, there’s a law that says that Steven, picking on Steven because I can see him, Stephen, can’t be compensated for the sale of the reverse mortgage and the sale of the other financial or insurance product, as long as Steven is not as a salesman.

Bill Comfort:

And the same for me, I can’t both make an insurance commission and a reverse mortgage.

Michael Banner:

Right.

Joe Demarkey:

Exactly. Exactly. 

Bill Comfort:

Yeah. 

Joe Demarkey:

But can Stephen refer a client to you or you to Steven, and Steven originates a reverse mortgage, and you secure a transaction regarding LTCI? Absolutely. There’s nothing that prohibits that sort of behavior between our industry and the long-term care insurance industry.

Bill Comfort:

And I think that’s one of the biggest misconceptions that’s out there. I know it’s in my industry, and we’ve talked about it Michael, that it’s in your industry. And I think as soon as we get past that, and here’s an analogy, and I think we need to think about it, this simply having the availability of a hundred thousand or 200,000 of home equity in whatever form through a reverse mortgage, and you use that, or you use some of that to buy other needed things like long-term care insurance. That’s no different than having a hundred thousand or 200,000 in CDs, that you’re accessing it. It’s the same kind of financial transaction.

Joe Demarkey:

Bill, here’s my favorite example. Let’s suppose that a client wants a reverse mortgage and they have an existing mortgage of $250,000, and they’re making their monthly payments to their lender every single month. They’re a great borrower. They’re responsible. And they talk to Steven about a reverse mortgage. And guess what? Based on how old they are and how much their house is worth, they qualify for $250,000. So, they would use 100% of the proceeds of a reverse mortgage that Steven helps them obtain to pay off an existing mortgage loan. They don’t get any cash whatsoever, none from the reverse mortgage, but what they’ve done is they’ve improved their cashflow. They’ve eliminated maybe their biggest monthly expense. And it allows them to be able to better afford a long-term care insurance policy, if that’s what they want.

Bill Comfort:

Perfect. Right. Right. Steven, you were going to add something. And then I think this sets up the examples, Michael. 

Michael Banner:

Yes, very much. 

Steven Sless:

Yeah. I mean, I think we can go even more granular than that. How about we use the reverse mortgage at 65 and we turn on a five-year tenure payment to bridge the gap. So, instead of turning on Social Security at 65, you delay Social Security, turn Social Security on at 70, and use and leverage your housing wealth, your home equity to bridge that five-year gap. And the result is going to be permanently increasing your Social Security check. So, it’s 70, you’re receiving a check that’s much larger than you would have at 65. And you’ve been able to do so by using reverse mortgage funds to get you to that point. And then if you want to turn funds off, you can simply turn them off.

That’s something else that folks don’t understand about reverse mortgages, is it almost works like a spigot. My friend, Don Graves came up with that analogy. You can turn funds on and you can just as easily turn funds off with a reverse mortgage. It’s the most flexible, customizable mortgage loan that there is. And I think great points, Joe, and great points, Bill. And I know Bill, you have some really fantastic examples that I want to take a look at.

Michael Banner:

at  his point, I don’t know which one of the three of you I love most. I’m actually, I mean, I’m in reverse mortgage heaven. I hope I don’t wake up this morning, and have them go, “Oh, I guess tonight is the new show.” Right? That this is reality. Thank you for asking that question, Bill. Thank you for answering it, Steven and Joe. I’m going to replay that segment of the show, probably 4,000 times tonight before I go to bed. But Bill, show us some real life examples.

Bill Comfort:

Sure. Now, this is just an example of some different ways to use reverse mortgage assets dollars to buy long-term care insurance. I’m going to give you just a couple of different examples. These are neither better. None of these are better nor worse. You need the input and advice of a skilled long-term care specialist to design your coverage, the rest of your financial team folks like Joe, and Michael, and Steven, on the reverse mortgage side.

So, what I want to show you is I’m starting with a very, I would call this a meaningful average type of a benefit today. So, we have a 65 year old couple, and the long-term care insurance, If either one of them needed care, physical help, or cognitive mental supervision like Alzheimer’s or dementia. A benefit, it starts at 4,000 a month. There’s total coverage of four years each. Ideally, you design it with what’s called shared benefits. So, there’s an eight year pot of money that this couple can use interchangeably, flexibly either way. $384,000, is $4,000 a month times eight years. That’s your starting savings account for long-term care needs in a sense. And a critical provision where this 4,000 a month and the total, automatically grows at 3% a year to keep up with the growing cost of everything. 

And look at this, this plan for this 65 year old couple, when they reach age 85, the benefit will be $7,224 a month, just simple math on the 3% inflation. And the maximum pool is close to $700,000 for care. 

Michael Banner:

That’s amazing. 

Bill Comfort:

That’s eight years of care for one or shared between the two spouses. So, let’s look at a couple of pricing, examples. And these are just ideas. 

So, first up in, and it’s interesting, I hear from people in my industry, “Oh, if people do reverse mortgages, that’s great. They can get a hundred thousand or 200,000 of equity out. We can put it into one of these new linked hybrid programs that has death benefits. So if they never need it, their heirs get the money back and the single pay.” Well, that might be a good idea, but it might not, if you need to do other things like stretch or delay Social Security or fund other things in your life. But just to buy the package I just described, and this is an average premium from three different companies. Single pay, this is for the husband and the wife together, would take about 186, let’s call it 190,000. At a 50% reverse mortgage loan, you’d need about 380,000 to 400,000 in equity to do that. But you do one and done. You’d be paid up.

And there’s about 200,000 of total death benefits, if neither spouse needed care. So, this is one idea. You could also pay for it for life, 15,000 a year, or about 1,200, 1,300 a month. So Joe, your idea, or forget, in the conversation, use the reverse mortgage to pay off your first mortgage. And if your principal and interest let’s say was $1,500 a year, you’re not making that payment anymore.

Michael Banner:

A month. 

Bill Comfort:

So, excuse me, a month. Yeah, correct. 1500 a month. Well, you can afford this premium on a monthly basis without having to commit the capital. But look at this, and this is unfairly received a lot of bad press. And a lot of people are dismissing it, and they should not. And that’s what we call just traditional long-term care insurance. So, no cash value, no death benefit. You just buy the pure long-term care insurance.

So, let me go back. You were paying for the death benefit here. You were paying for cash value. Maybe you don’t need that. Maybe what you need is just the long-term care insurance. So, the exact same design, the exact same care benefits that would cost 1,300 a month with a hybrid plan, only costs about 640 a month with the traditional policy. 

Now, so Joe, let’s use your example. Couple pays off their first mortgage with the proceeds from the reverse mortgage, and they now have $1,500 a month in principal and interest they don’t have to pay. They do, Michael, you always are good about reminding folks, “You still have to pay your taxes, property taxes, and insurance and upkeep.” But if you had 1,500 a month, you can buy excellent long-term care insurance. Let’s just call it 640, 700. And you’ve got 800 or 900 a month more that’s back into your life and lifestyle. Maybe just that cash flow helps you stretch and wait on your Social Security till age 70, or just helps you expand the way that you want to live. 

So, these are just two quick examples that show different types of reverse mortgage, taking a lump sum and buying another financial product that has tremendous value. By the way, you put 186,000 in or at the low end 640 a month. And at age 85, you have almost $700,000 available to pay for long-term care expenses, if you need care. And that’s tremendous leverage, to use a word that we’ve used. But think about it, what it does for your spouse. Think about what it does for your kids. Think about what it does for the rest of the financial security that’s there. 

So, those are some examples. And I think we’ve got another whole show, probably waiting in the wings, Michael, about ethically, where do you draw lines and measure what’s best? But at the end of the day, we can’t draw general conclusions. It’s client to client, family to family, planners and specialists like those of us on this call that we’ll work it out. But it’s available. And I think that’s really exciting.

Michael Banner:

And I want to just throw something out quick before Joe and Steve put in their opinion. This’ll be another show and probably one or two of the three of you, I hope we’ll be on this show when we bring on a Medicare expert. It’s a totally different topic. But if they were to use $600, $640 of that $1,200 to $1,500 payment that we just eliminated with a reverse mortgage for long-term care insurance. 

And since your example was for two 65-year olds, if they use the other 600 or less for two med sup policies from mom and dad, they are now literally set for life of never having to hand out a penny and never worrying about… Let’s face it, this is the first pandemic in our lifetime. So, I don’t want to be one of those salespeople that goes, “Oh my God, what if there’s another one? What if this one gets worse?” I’m worried about that. But just for every reason, cancer, female cancer, man cancer, prostate cancer, cervical cancer, breast cancer, these are things we live with now and they have a cure rate. That’s one of the good things about the baby generation. They have a cure rate higher than ever before. But to use the term from your industry Bill, they’re getting… What is that term? They’re getting their premium while they’re on-

Bill Comfort:

While they’re on claim that premiums are waived or forgiven.

Michael Banner:

That’s right. So, for them to have, I know my mom and dad, mom ended up dying of cancer, Dad of congestive heart failure. Mom went too early. They both went to early, but they lived great lives. If we didn’t have them med sup policies between back surgeries, minor heart attacks, some female cancer from my mother, prostate cancer from my dad in his seventies, even though he was cured of everything. They were both cured. But if there wasn’t a med sup policy, my dad would have been bankrupt or I would have bankrupt the company paying those bills. Now, that’s a separate show. But to be able to say to somebody with a $1,200 or $1,500 mortgage payment, we can eliminate that and give you the two things that guarantee you never being in the home. You will say, it’s your home safely. That’s a life changer for this country. Am I over-exaggerating Joe, Steve or Bill?

Bill Comfort:

No, that Steven, that’s your point of the ability for this product to be so flexible that it can meet so many different needs as different clients habit.

Steven Sless:

Absolutely. And I think, retirement is expensive, but what’s more expensive is a lack of information. And what we find is too many baby boomers and too many seniors try to take retirement on themselves. And there’s a big difference between wealth accumulation and wealth distribution. Now, having to understand how much you can draw safely, how to pay for long-term care. What if something goes wrong in the house? Sorry, are you covered for that? Medicare is a whole different subject. So, there’s a lot of information to take in, but there’s great professionals out there. Reach out to one of us or reach out to anybody in your local market and become empowered. That’s my best point of advice that I can give as we try to wrap it up here.

Michael Banner:

Well, you know what? If it’s okay with you guys, I’m going to say this very quickly, we have 30 seconds left in the TV show, but since we’re transferring to a podcast, the TV audience, if you’d like, because we’re having a good conversation, I don’t want to rush it right now. I don’t expect you to be here for hours more. But when the TV show ends, we are going to continue on Facebook and on several other platforms. So, to our TV audience, thank you very much. Thank our panelists. But we are going to continue on, go to Facebook, go to Facebook or YouTube, and you can see the continuance of this, because we’re not stopping until we’re done. So, thank you to the TV audience, but we can keep going.

Joe, again, the thoughts of really reaching out to hundreds of that, when you gave that two and a half million figure of that’s how many seniors, that is such a number that is so far above numbers, you and I discussed maybe five or seven years ago at a NRMLA conference in California. Two and a half million seniors is still borrowing money on their house. To be able to say to those two and a half million or the next two and a half million, that we can show you how to buy long-term care insurance, Medicare supplement insurance, we can protect you for the rest of your life. I mean, what a staggering legacy for the reverse mortgage to reach for from that topic that no one understood, from that product of last resort to possibly that product that can help an entire new generation.

Joe Demarkey:

Yeah. And I guess, to folks like Bill and other financial advisors that are watching or listening, a good chunk of that two and a half million population who applied for some sort of mortgage loan, might’ve been encouraged or educated by their financial advisor to do so. 

Michael Banner:

Yes. 

Joe Demarkey:

Again, because the house has been… Bill, you can speak to this better than I can. Most financial advisors have ignored home equity as an asset class in their planning for their clients. I’ll use my dad as the example. My dad is still with me. Thank God. He’s 82 years old. And I remember when I was growing up as a kid and I started to learn about financial matters, that he always told me what he was taught. You work hard. You save during your working years. And then you spend down that money during your retirement years. 

And the fact of the matter is because we’re living longer, that most people haven’t saved enough. If you’re going to get Social Security, which most people do, if you’re lucky enough to have a pension, which not most people do anymore, that traditional three legged stool that my dad taught me about Social Security, your savings, your pension, that was going to carry you financially through retirement, not when we’re living so much longer. Michael, those statistics you gave at the top of the broadcast were incredible. You have a 50% chance of living till age 90, if you are 62 years old today. How are you going to afford to live the quality of life that you want to, if you’ve got another third of your life to go? You got another 30 years to live, can you afford to live the lifestyle that you want to for yourself? And if you can’t because you haven’t saved enough, or you’re not receiving as much guaranteed retirement income as you’re going to through Social Security, again, if you’re lucky enough to get a pension, that’s great. What do you do? 

And for the first time ever financial advisors are starting to realize that a lot of consumers around the country are starting to realize, “I’ve got to think about my house. What do I do about my house? Can I help improve the chance that I have to be successful with my retirement plan, if I use my house some way, some form?” And two and a half million people did that in 2018, they applied for a mortgage loan of some kind-

Michael Banner:

That’s right. 

Joe Demarkey:

… to help improve their financial situation.

Michael Banner:

Yeah. And although we have spent a great deal of the show talking about reverse mortgages, let’s not forget, correct me if I’m wrong, Bill, but your real target audience, or I should say the smartest time, which I wasn’t smart enough to do, and so that ship has sailed, is actually to buy long-term care insurance around your mid fifties, or am I close to reality there when we can do it? 

Bill Comfort:

Yeah. That 55 to 60 is the sweet spot of pricing health for insurability. And the other big commitments are done or almost done, particularly putting kids through college. And so, let’s tie this in there, right? Because let’s say through your 54, 55, 56 year old couple, they’re not eligible for reverse mortgage yet. But one of the questions I always get is they say, “We can afford this premium.” Now, it wouldn’t be 640 a month. It might only be 400 a month at 55, the example we used. And I’m just shooting from the hip there. But they say, “We can afford that today. We’re both still working.” But it’s just, it’s a little concerning, we get to 65, 70, where we’re retired, we’re on a fixed income, Social Security, drawing from our savings. 

And I think for some people, they hesitate to buy the coverage at the right time, because they’re not sure how to pay for it forever. Now, paying upfront one single lump sum is one way around that. But honestly, most people don’t have enough money to put that big chunk in there, particularly to buy enough coverage. Some do, but broad market, we’re not enough into the great middle market. And of course, there’s people with money that’s less that shouldn’t be buying the insurance. But I could see, at 55 you buy it. And then you begin to talk about the possibility, just the possibility. And Joe, this is right to what you’re saying now of using a reverse mortgage later to free up cashflow, eliminate the monthly P and I, principal and interest payments, or to pull a lump sum out to reallocate. There’s that future financial security that I think the boomers are more than willing to start looking at and thinking about.

Michael Banner:

I don’t want to keep you guys for hours and hours, although at the rate it’s going, I really would like to, because this has just been fantastic for me. I have to tell you that. Steven, talk to us a little about the proprietary reverse mortgage programs that are now going up to three and $4 million. This is a whole new class of people that can take a million dollars out of their two or two and a half million dollar house, or pay off a million dollar mortgage and not free up 1,200 a month, free up 8,000 a month. And the amazing financial tools that could be done with that type of capital. Or Bill, instead of them putting up 186,000, maybe they’re putting up 300,000 and getting a staggering, that’s a whole new world for us. And of course, Joe, with a reverse mortgage funding has one of the finest proprietary programs in the country. I’ve closed several of them. This is a new world for reverse mortgages. These people that say it’s just for poor people, not anymore.

Steven Sless:

Well, because that goes back to the point of leverage, Michael, what these folks understand, and we just closed a jumbo reverse mortgage a couple months back for a guy in Boca Raton, Florida right in your state, Michael, $4.5 million home, completely free and clear of any mortgage. Now, why in the world would somebody with a four and a half million dollar home and no mortgage, take out a reverse mortgage? You’d think this guy is crazy. This is what the most astute and savvy investors understand better than anything else, it’s leverage. It’s like, Steve, why wouldn’t I leverage this equity? Look at what I’m making. And this particular person has a lot of means. I mean, he has a net worth, well, into six, $7 million. It’s like, why in the world would I draw that out? When I can draw the equity out of my home, my home is never going to go up at the rate of my investment portfolio right now. They understand leverage.

And now, we’re seeing a whole new class of reverse mortgage clientele come into our industry. And they’re looking at their home as the investment tool and the financial tool that it truly is. 

I think backtracking for a second. And then, Joe can certainly talk about RMF’s product because they’re one of the big innovators in the market with the proprietary products. But I want to go back for a moment and talk about the everyday person. I was talking to a financial advisor yesterday on a Zoom call and he’s like, “You know what, Steve? I, the financial advisor, I’m only talking to the upper 5%, right? What about the other 95%?” And I look at my parents, my parents, I just did a reverse mortgage for my parents two months ago. 

And I think my parents represent exactly what our normal reverse mortgage client looks like. They’ve worked hard their whole life. They’ve saved. They’ve invested. They’ve done all the right things, but they were late savers, right? They need to start saving until they were in their late forties, early fifties. It really took until my sister and I were out of the home before they could really start to ramp up their retirement savings. And by that point, it’s just too late. They didn’t feel they have the means to entertain talking to a financial advisor. They’ve always been DIYers. They’ve just done it on their own. And they’ve gotten to this point where now it’s time to start talking about retirement.

My dad is almost 70. He’s going to be retiring soon. And my mom, she’s just not long for the job that she’s doing any longer. At some point sooner, rather than later, they’re going to need to retire. And now, they make the big switch. The big switch from wealth accumulation to wealth distribution. We’re having to talk about long-term care. My grandfather, God bless him. He’s 97 years old. He was healthy as a clam until COVID hit. And with him being locked down for the past nine months, his health has gone dramatically downhill. And now, the whole family has to come into play. And we’re realizing how difficult long-term care is. He does not have long-term care insurance. We’re having to fund his long-term care insurance and provide that care as well. 

But I think my parents represent that 95% of folks that are out there on an island. They’re not represented by a financial advisor. So, who’s speaking to them? Shows like this, we’re speaking directly to them. But how else are we getting directly to those folks, those folks who are just out there doing it on their own, but they’re going to have a big surprise coming really soon, if they don’t talk to a professional, a long-term care professional, a financial services professional, and maybe a reverse mortgage professional to help them navigate the murky waters of retirement.

Michael Banner:

Absolutely. Absolutely. Very well put. Absolutely. Joe, do you want to say anything about the proprietary product and what you think that’s bringing to the industry?

Joe Demarkey:

Yeah. Listen, the government products which dominates the industry today has helped over a million homeowners around the country be able to access their home equity, never have to make a monthly payment, as long as they’re just being a good borrower, a good homeowner. They’re paying their taxes on time. Keeping their house insured, and they live there as their principal residence. The proprietary products, the non-government products that we’re talking about, help meet the borrowing needs of other people. For example, Steve’s example of somebody who lives in a very high valued home, who might need to borrow a lot more money or want to borrow a lot more money than the government program would allow for, that’s the obvious segment of the market that the proprietary reverse mortgage products that are available in the country can help me.

We can also help me, the borrowing needs of people who live in properties through no fault of their own, that don’t qualify for the government reverse mortgage program. And I’m thinking about condominium owners, Michael, especially down in your neck of the woods in Florida. It’s a startling statistic that only, I think it’s like 11% or 12% of all condominiums in the country today are FHA approved. That means 88% or 89% are not.

Michael Banner:

That’s right.

Joe Demarkey:

And there’s plenty of those condominiums unit owners who happen to be 62 years of age or older, and proprietary reverse mortgage loans can help a good portion of those folks as well. So, listen, proprietary reverse mortgages help to expand the market. They help to serve borrowers who are not well-served by the government program that exists today.

Michael Banner:

Absolutely.

Joe Demarkey:

And that’s a good thing. We’ll reach more of those borrowers. So, a lot of product innovation that’s happening in our industry, including at my company, and we’ll come out with even more variations of the product, I’m sure in the years ahead that will help expand the market even further. 

Michael Banner:

Fantastic. All right. Well, I kept you about 10 minutes longer than expected, but I do thank you for this. To me, this has been, I don’t know, almost a culmination of 10 years. And the three of you made that come true tonight. 

In the next couple of months, our new Longevity Initiative is going to be dealing with Medicare and Medicaid, quite frankly, last expense insurance. We all know how expensive funerals have gotten. Of course, Medicare supplements. We’re going to be bringing back our national expert on dementia, which it’s amazing to me what our numbers, what our viewers are when we talk dementia. Because we all are, I mean, of all diseases, I know that’s my number one fear. That that’s just a crippling disease. And it doesn’t know what religion you are or what color you are, or what income bracket you’re in. Unlike a lot of other things that your income bracket can help you cure. 

We’re going to be bringing back the Weizmann Institute to talk about examples. And I know a few of you have seen those shows when the Weizmann Institute from Israel was on two shows ago, two Weizmann shows ago. I don’t know if you remember when we brought on Mr. Richard Ellison, he said to me, “Michael, how old are your grandchildren?” And I said, “Well, they’re 14, seven, three and six months.” And he went, “And I’m going to give you my word on something.” I said, “What’s that?” 

And I don’t know if you guys remember this, because I know you watched the show. I don’t know if Joe, if you watched back then, it was a couple of months ago. He said, “Michael, your grandchildren will be playing tennis in the heat of the summer in Florida, when they’re a hundred years old. They are, the medical community, as much as we’ve made advancements in the last three decades, in the next two to three decades, Alzheimer’s, heart disease, all types of female and male cancers, we’re almost at an 80% to 90% cure rate.” 

But the Weizmann Institute just about a year ago, and it’s already in human testing right now, came up with a medication that eradicates the plaque on your arteries. Okay? If you eradicate the plaque on your arteries, people will not have heart attacks. Well, they will, for other reasons, but that’s the main reason. People will not have strokes. And then another section of the Weizmann Institute said, “Wait a minute, Alzheimer’s is created by plaque on the brain. Can we have that medication?” And a year later, they now feel they are this close to a cure for dementia, eradicating the plaque on the brain. People are going to be living to a hundred, 110, 125 years old. That’s not only a financial problem to your average person, we’re going to have to increase the loan to values, guys, on reverse mortgages. 

But how about the food shortage? How many supermarkets are there? There’s a shortage now of healthcare people. What’s going to happen when we’re living to be a hundred, 110, 120. How about senior housing? Our world is going to be different in the next two to three decades. And I hope we can be a source of some information on all the topics I’ve mentioned. 

I hope the three of you will be back not just for a reverse mortgage show, but I want the three of you or two or one, or three of you to always be on the show to talk about the things that are affecting seniors. And I just thank you so much for being here. You have no idea how much I appreciate it. Thank you so much. 

Steven Sless:

Thank you, Michael. 

Joe Demarkey:

Thanks, Michael. 

Bill Comfort:

Thank you, Michael. 

Michael Banner:

All right. Now, guys, before we cut off, I know the TV audience has gone and I didn’t get a chance to say this. So, hopefully, a lot of people switched over to Facebook. But to my three guests, to John Gaston in the back, who is the owner of We Beam TV, and to all our 62 Who Knew? viewers, I hope you have a happy and healthy Thanksgiving. I know it’s going to be a rough one with COVID-19. 

I have to say, I’m going to be told a million times when we cut off, “You didn’t bring up the website, Michael. You’re not selling.” Can you imagine Joe, somebody telling me I’m not selling enough, that I didn’t bring up the website the whole damn show. Everybody, our people, our viewers, go to 62whoknew.com. Send me an email, mbanner@62whoknew.com. “I need information on reverse mortgages. I need information on long-term care.” I will put you with the best. You’re looking at the best. So again, happy Thanksgiving. And thank you all so much for being here. Take care.

Mike Banner:

Good afternoon. It’s Mike Banner. We’re here for another episode of 62 Who Knew, here at the beautiful studios in New Port Richey, Florida, and here we go again. I was prepared to have another topic this week because two weeks in a row we discussed the relevance or the relationship between long-term care insurance and equity in your home, in other words reverse mortgages. 

And in the two weeks that we did that where we changed the format of the show to having a panel of speakers, we had record viewership for our show between 55,000 and 80,000 viewers for the last two weeks tuned in to listen to our panel of experts talk about the relationship of these two great industries. Or should I be more exact and say the lack of relationship in these two great industries, reverse mortgages and long-term care insurance, who are serving almost the exact demographic. 

Why haven’t these industries got together and done a better job at this? Well, they are and it’s starting right here. So I was prepared to go to a different topic this week, but quite frankly an article came out in the Washington Post just a few days ago. I know I sent it to you, John. I don’t know if you want to bring it up, but we could do that later. And the article is aptly titled, The Home Stretch: Accessing Home Value to Fund Long-Term Care, and is right on point and even brings up some incredible statistics that took me by surprise. 

So instead of changing topics, we’re going to go right back into this. Only two-thirds our panel are here. One-third of our panel was very busy and couldn’t make it, before we bring them on. But the two-thirds that are here are two of the best, Mr. Bill Comfort, the number one instructor of the certified long-term care insurance designation, and president of Comfort Long Term Care Insurance. Widely known throughout the country as one of the voices of long-term care insurance. And of course, Mr. Steven Sless, one of our favorite guests, who is a national reverse mortgage expert. 

And to my knowledge, we’ll ask him when he comes on, the only reverse mortgage expert in the country that actually took the time to take the CLTV, LTCI certification. And he doesn’t even have an insurance license, yet he went sat through a class with Bill Comfort and learned all about long-term care insurance. So we’re going to bring them up right now. But as always we’re not going to bring… Oh, we brought them up right now anyway. I said that too quick. 

We’ll skip the normal who knew at 62 you had 30 years to live. Most people are watching that already know that. So thank you to all our new viewers and our past viewers that have given us record-breaking viewership the last two weeks and I owe that, I’m sure to you too. Peter Gelbach is not with us tonight and Mark Goldberg. But talk about great timing with this article. We’re trying to bring this very message to our two industries and here are three relatively young authors. Did you see their pictures? These people are as close to long-term care. I’m not going to make an analogy because it’ll be improper. 

Most of my analogies I’m being told can somehow come across as improper. But they certainly have their expertise. Two actually from Australia and one is from America. I contacted Mr. Robert Eaton. Talk about a coincidence to see if he’d like to be on the show. Yes, he would. And he lives in Clearwater, Florida. What are the odds on that? So we’re having breakfast on Wednesday, and we’ll see. But what a great article. A few things stood out to me, but Steven and Bill, welcome back. Thank you for being here again.

Bill Comfort:

Thanks, Michael. It’s great to be here.

Steven Sless:

It’s a privilege to be back. I appreciate you having me back on. 

Mike Banner:

All right. And before we actually get into this article, have you two had any, I won’t say repercussions, but direct results. I know you’re putting it out. I know, Steven you’re using your media team to cut it a lot up into little snippets and get it out there. I don’t know if that’s complete yet. But have you had any comments on for what we’ve done the last couple weeks. Go ahead, Steven. 

Steven Sless:

Yeah. A lot of my peers in the industry have reached out and have taken note of us kind of being on the forefront of bringing this education to light. I think it’s been long overdue. What’s ironic is I gave a presentation at the NRMLA conference, the National Reverse Mortgage Lender Association conference back in the summer and then again just recently last month where I brought up how our industries, the long-term care industry and the reverse mortgage industry need to come together. 

And then Michael, you’ve really taken the ball and run with it. I think that time is now. So a lot of my peers have reached out to me to congratulate me to being a part of this initiative. And they’re excited to do the same. They’re excited to take the same course that I took to become certified in long-term care to really make it a part of their business plan moving forward in 2021 and beyond. 

Mike Banner:

All right. And before I ask Bill the same question, I’m going to put you on the spot, Steven. I hate to do this. I’ve never done this to you, but I’m doing it now. Are you ready? Let’s see.

Steven Sless:

Let’s do it. 

Mike Banner:

Let’s see who’s really the father. No, no. That’s Maury Povich, I’m sorry. Here’s my question for you. Are you really the father of those… What was NRMLAs reaction? I ask this question with total… I asked the question not knowing your answer. Not the people attending, because I know this was virtual, but as an industry, what was NRMLA’s reaction to joining these two forces?

Steven Sless:

As a trade association, and Mike you and I have had extensive conversations about this. I think as a trade association, NRMLA, again, National Reverse Mortgage Lender Association probably should in retrospect, should have done a better job of being out on the forefront of this a lot sooner, but that time again is now. I was pleasantly surprised to have them welcome this idea with open arms, and they know that I’m out and about and discussing it on shows like this, about marrying our two industries and coming together for really the betterment of the clients that we work with. They’re behind it a hundred percent, I think. And going back five, 10 years ago, we couldn’t have said that about NRMLA before.

Mike Banner:

That’s true, and I’m so glad to hear that. Bill, what are your peers saying about what we’re doing? 

Bill Comfort:

Yeah. It’s a really good question, and it’s interesting how both the discussions that we’re having and the interest in the programs these last two weeks, as well as the article that you’ve highlighted, we’re going to touch on a little bit tonight, just the timing of a lot of these things have been just fortuitous. What I’m hearing from my peers, so other long-term care specialists and also folks a little more broadly in financial planning and financial services is kind of two-fold. It’s about time. In other words, for this intersection to happen, but then also almost in the same breath saying, every time, I’ve ever brought up a reverse mortgage or talked to anybody about it in whatever context from the insurance financial services engagement with clients is it’s dismissed. 

Oh, I don’t like that. I don’t like the idea or they don’t understand it. But that’s really the point. It’s time for a new look, a new understanding of not only what a reverse mortgages do and the flexibility as a financial tool. And that’s been happening a bit on the academic side for a year or two. But practically planning with clients, it’s time that agents and advisors learn about reverse mortgages. And as Steve has said vice versa, because there’s in some ways an equal amount of misunderstanding or dismissal of long-term care insurance as a needed product for retirement.

So I mean, the message is man, this is great timing. Where do we go? How do we do it? What are the things that need to be understood. And that’s what we’re hoping to develop a little further tonight too. 

Mike Banner:

I know, Steve, you must get that same feeling I do. In fact, one of the people who’s not here tonight, but one of our closest friends and friends of 62 Who Knew you know Mark Goldberg who was on last week said to me, “Michael, I brought it up three times.” I know he copied you two. I brought it up, well, three times when they couldn’t afford what I was showing them. Why don’t we consider a reverse mortgage? And they not only said no, but they dismissed it, “No, I don’t want one of those.” And although it is not Mark’s position, and I don’t blame him to keep pushing. That’s not what he’s there for. He’s not a mortgage person, but I guarantee you if Steven or I said to those people, “May I ask why did you have such an emotional reaction?” The result Steven would have been, “Because you’ll take my home and my children. I won’t get anything.” I know when I hear people go, “No,” it makes my blood boil. 

Steven Sless:

And I would add to that, Michael. I think to Bill’s point, the same goes the other way around. When we’ve brought up long-term care insurance to clients, the first reaction you get is what no way. That’s too expensive. I can’t afford that. When I bring up, “Hey, working with a financial advisor. Do you work with a financial…” “Oh, no. I can’t afford working with a financial advisor.” So breaking down these misconceptions and delivering education through platforms like this, I think are needed and I think when both the long-term care industry and reverse mortgage industry really come together, not to sell products, not to sell more reverse mortgages, but for the betterment of the consumer. Retirement is very different today than it ever has been before and so too is the way we need to look at funding retirement. 

There’s a lot of advanced planning strategies that can be opened up with long-term care insurance, with reverse mortgages. But I would say the advisors and the clients, it does take having an open mindset. And if a client can come to a TV show like this or look at an article that was in the paper the other day, and realize that these are real planning strategies that folks across the country are taking. What we try to do is back it up with numbers. 

I can pinpoint to the zip code how many of your neighbors have a reverse mortgage. There’s a lot of folks taking out a reverse mortgage right now and I know Bill can do the same with long-term care insurance. These products are being used. They’re being used very strategically and very proactively to create a better retirement. They’re not the loans of last resort they once were and they’re not that expensive insurance product that can only be sought after by the wealthy. 

Bill Comfort:

Right, right. And I think, Michael, you know through your research and the development of this program, your viewers and folks who watch this on replay are more sophisticated than just, “Oh, this is all about an easy sale or whatever.” It’s not. I’m not suggesting nor is Steven, and I know that’s not the agenda. We’re not suggesting this is the answer or the best answer, or a new answer that everybody should do using a reverse mortgage to fund long-term care insurance or to help with that or whatever. It’s a tool. The insurance product is a tool to help you fund and overcome deficits and paying for care, you can’t do on your own. 

Reverse mortgages are a tool to unlock home equity. I love that idea of unlocking home equity that otherwise is illiquid to use for so many possibilities. So we’re not here to say, “This is the greatest newest thing and everybody needs to do it.” We are here saying everyone who has a stake in planning for retirement, whether it’s for yourself or it’s for your clients must now advance their knowledge, not only in long-term care insurance in new ways and reverse mortgages in new ways, but there’s an opportunity where the two together can create significant financial advantage for families. 

Mike Banner:

No doubt about that. Like we’ve been talking about for more than a decade now and that amazes me that it’s more than a decade. I still think that the part of the world… I’m sorry, I’m getting too big. The part of the country that never could afford long-term care insurance, it’s not even in their sphere. It’s near because that’s just it. We’re not those people. They don’t realize that there is a tool, and it’s not for everyone, but there is a platform or a vehicle like a reverse mortgage that yes, you can have that coverage. It’s not just your rich cousin. It’s you. You can have the same coverage. And that’s what’s exciting to me is getting it to that new demographic. 

Bill Comfort:

That’s one of those conventional wisdoms that it’s only for wealthy people or you have to have X amount of money, or I couldn’t possibly afford it. That’s wrong, A. And some of it is because people aren’t designing clients, and agents are not designing the coverage properly. But it’s interesting because it’s also a convenient belief. It’s a mistaken belief, but it’s convenient because it lets people let themselves off the hook. It’s wrong, but it fits into consumer biases about things. So these are some of the things that need to change. 

And it’s interesting. I think for many people, that group, Michael that you’re talking about, that you’re advocating for, that have home equity, that need long-term care insurance, but have always thought or felt, even looked at the coverage and decided it was too expensive, if it helps them buy it. Not that it necessarily pays for it 100% itself, but if it helps them buy it. And I think this is a key idea. And Steven, some of your examples about how reverse mortgages play into lifestyle as well, but what if you could afford the insurance without having to compromise lifestyle or even long-term financial security. I think that’s what a lot of people… That’s the bottom line for them.

Steven Sless:

I think in general people have a misconception about what long-term care insurance is and what a reverse mortgage is. In our industry, the general idea of a reverse mortgage is cashing out the equity in your home, and taking out this big lump sum of cash. We very, very seldom advise that as a way to structure a reverse mortgage. Moreover, it is tailoring a reverse mortgage as a line of credit tailoring it as a lifetime check that is sent to you every month or a term payment that’s sent to you over a select period of years. 

That is a more strategic way to leverage what is in most cases your largest asset. But the idea, the notion that if you do a reverse mortgage, you’re going to take out all of your equity and then leave a smaller legacy to your loved ones simply isn’t the case. Let’s say you do nothing, but then you need care. And Bill, I know you can speak more broadly about the cost of that care, but you could wind up depleting your entire portfolio and really leave nothing to your kids. Instead, look at ways that you can, again, preserve your lifestyle, but also preserve your other accounts by using what is in most cases a lower growth potential asset in the home. And if you have a portfolio that’s making you money at a rate of six, seven, eight, nine whatever percentage, that is more than your home is making you year over year. 

So using the home very strategically and very methodically, and really understanding, one, you got to understand the cost of care, but then all of these different products that are out there. There’s hybrid products. There’s products that involve life insurance and long-term care and then look at different ways to design the reverse mortgage, because you’ll be surprised and what you’re going to find is oftentimes you can afford some sort of level of long-term care and you can pay for it by designing your reverse mortgage in the proper way. 

Bill Comfort:

And it’s again, not a zero sum. It’s not a zero-sum calculation that you’re going to lose the house, lose your home equity, but you got long-term care insurance and you may never use it or it’s expensive, or whatever. Again, that’s an over simplification that many people… I’m surprised at how many sophisticated financial advisors buy into, step into or cheat intellectually with that type of a shorthand. It’s easy to dismiss an idea you don’t want to think about, but it’s not really developing the planning strategies. 

So it’s interesting. I think the leading edge of the baby boomers is 74. The trailing edge is 57. So the majority of the baby boomers are 62 to 70, plus a little bit older. Those are still good key buying ages for long-term care insurance if you’re healthy. They are certainly at 62 fully in the reverse mortgage eligibility age range. And this whole idea that we hear from folks, “Well, I don’t want to tap the home equity. I don’t want to use the home equity because then I can’t leave it to the kids.” 

In another context, if it’s just looking at long-term care insurance separately, I have boomer clients tell me, I don’t want to buy long-term care insurance. I don’t need to because we don’t plan to leave the kids any money. Especially if we need care, we’ll just spend our own money on us. We’ve told them don’t expect an inheritance. 

Now, they don’t hate their kids. They’re just being realistic that they could, maybe will have to spend the money themselves. Okay. Let’s play that out. How does it work? But just to start here, isn’t it interesting how some people in one breath will say, “Oh, well, I don’t want to compromise a risk, the equity in the house.” And then in the next breath will say, “Well, yeah. But we’re not planning to leave any money to the kids anyway, so we’ll just spend it on ourselves.” Sometimes these things are-

Mike Banner:

They don’t match.

Bill Comfort:

… irreconcilable. Once you really begin to have what I like to call a grown-up conversation about the subject. 

Mike Banner:

Before we get to some statistics, and they cover a little of that in this article, it’s a very… Usually, I pick apart articles about long-term care insurance or reverse mortgages. This was very, very well written and I hope one, or two, or three of them can come on with you guys to the show in the next 30 days. But they do bring up that long-term care insurance and reverse mortgages are emotional to people. You hit it on the head when you said, Bill, that continuing this misinformation is the most convenient. “No, I don’t want a reverse mortgage. They’re going to take my house.” “No, they’re not. May I explain it?” “No, no. Really, I don’t want it. How about long-term care insurance? It’s way too expensive.” “But it’s not. May I tell?” “It’s not really something I’m interested in.” 

You’re right. It’s a convenient way to remain ignorant, but on two very emotional subjects, their home and their health, and nobody wants to talk about it. So I want to bring up a statistic that I was surprised at and then of course, Bill, you came back with another statistic which really flipped me out. And again, I’m not as much into statistics as many people are because I think depending on your source, that’s how accurate your statistics are. In fact, 86.5% of statistics are actually made up. I know that, because I just made that one up. So there’s the proof of that. 

But according to the US Department of Health and Human Services, 47% of men and 58% of women who recently turned 65 will need some form of long-care insurance, will have some sort of a long-term care event and they will need to be covered for approximately one to two years. And Bill, you always come out with that unique perspective, which is, “Michael, that’s sometimes a hurtful statistic.” Well, because many people go, “Well, one, one and a half years, I can handle that. I mean, why is everybody so scared? Why should I pay premiums on a long-term care insurance?” Would you please tell them the next statistic, Bill? What happens after that first time?

Bill Comfort:

Right. That’s a great setup. These statistics are important because they can inform us. They can help us. They can guide us. But they can also mislead us. The average length of care, year and a half, two years, whatever, well, that’s fine. But that average includes people who are in a nursing home for 20 or 30 days getting physical therapy after their hip replacement and then they’re literally back on their feet back home and independent. So the 30-day rehab stay averages that long-term care need number down. If you look at just custodial care, ongoing help with things like bathing and dressing, for example, just being safe, getting around the house physically or supervision for cognitive mental limitations, we think of Alzheimer’s, dementia, it could be a head injury. If you just look at those things, the average jumps to about two and a half years for men, close to four years for women.

And here’s I think the most telling statistic, using some of these same data sets from the government. Once a person has needed care for at least one year. So the claims or the need for care that gets to a year at that point, the average jumps to five years or more. So when somebody says, “Well, I could afford a year or two.” “Okay. Could you afford four or five?” Because if you need care for a year, the average jumps up dramatically because we’re taking the short term stuff kind of out of the calculation. And that’s where we need to be careful. 

Aren’t there fewer and fewer people percentage-wise? Yeah, but you know what, you can’t measure that. Are you going to need care for six months or five years? Michael, you and I’ve talked about this several times. It’s going to be one or the other. 

Mike Banner:

That’s right.

Bill Comfort:

And the one that’s devastating, if you haven’t planned for it, that’s where the consequences come in. That’s kind of my little statistical lesson related to this.

Mike Banner:

That second statistic of it can last four to five years after the first 12 months, that takes away that average person going, “I can handle a year. What’s the big deal?” 

Bill Comfort:

Right.

Mike Banner:

And they may be able to handle four or five years. The point is they also may have no savings left after that four or five years. How do you define handling it? Steven, your input on that because I have a couple of things for you right now.

Steven Sless:

I think over the past… So Bill mentioned, the baby boomers that are kind of making their way of age right now to baby boomer status are in their late 50s, turning young 60s. And I think over the past 10, 12 years, I think we’ve all, but especially them, they’ve been spoiled by this hot stock market and they’ve seen their investments grow and they’ve seen their portfolio grow. And I think there’s a lot of overconfidence in the markets out there. I remember back to when I got in the reverse mortgage business, and the economy wasn’t so great, I got in the reverse mortgage business in the middle of an economic downturn with a product that was far inferior than it is today. 

And those people are going to have a big shock when the market shifts. I’m not saying it’s going to. God, I pray it doesn’t, but it could and if it does, then what? So being proactive instead of reactive, I think in planning of course is important. Understanding that regardless of how many assets you have and what your rate of return is on those assets, it’s likely that if you are in your 60s or 70s or even 50 still, the bulk of your net worth lies within your home equity. Just understand what options you have. 

I’m not saying do a reverse mortgage or a home equity line. I’m not saying buy long-term care insurance, but be proactive and understand what these options are. We’re going to get to a place one day where the market’s not doing as well as it is now. I hope that is a long time away, but it may not be. So having a plan in place and setting up a reverse mortgage line of credit gives you locked in protection. There’s a guaranteed growth rate on a reverse mortgage line of credit that guarantees irregardless of housing values, irregardless of the stock market. You will make a growth on your line of credit. You are guaranteed to grow that line of credit each and every year. 

You’re also guaranteed because these are federally insured reverse mortgages that your line of credit can never be frozen, suspended or called due in the event of an economic downturn. Think back, again, ’08, ’09. If you had a line of credit in place, what happened? It’s likely that your bank either called it due, froze it or suspended it. Even when COVID first hit, there was a lot of big lending institutions. JPMorgan Chase was one. Wells Fargo is another one. They froze all home equity lines of credit. You couldn’t access your line of credit. 

There was folks that had a hundred thousand dollar line of credit, and still to this day may not have access to it. That can’t happen with a reverse mortgage. So even if you don’t necessarily use a reverse mortgage right here now, maybe you have the funds to self-pay either for care or for a long-term care policy, taking out a reverse mortgage as a backup, as an insurance policy, it could be very, very, very beneficial but you have to be educated and you have to really understand that there are a lot of options out there for you. 

Mike Banner:

Yep. And then of course the factor, and I’m going to get to one. There’s three statistics here that if you and I were not in the reverse mortgage business, if we were coming from a country, and there’s not many countries that don’t have reverse mortgages. A lot of people don’t realize that. Canada has the equity release. Australia, the Mid East, the Far East, all have their own versions. Ours is the best. I’m not saying that because we’re sitting here, it simply is the best. But let’s also not forget that regarding… You hear the horror stories if I owed more on my house than it’s worth. Please explain to people, because again I’m not going to do it, because it seems a little self-serving to me. 

How does it affect your estate? I’m loading the question, I know, but I’m doing it anyway. How does it affect your children, your estate, your heirs, if we’re in the middle of another great recession? They live to be 95. Every economic thing is against us. The house is upside down 100 grand, 200 grand. Tell me, how does that affect the heirs or the estate? 

Steven Sless:

It’s a great lead-in, Michael. I appreciate it. All reverse mortgages are non-recourse loans. What does that mean? Non-recourse means that neither you, or your estate, or your heirs are going to be responsible if there is an overage. I like to look at it almost like gap insurance for your car, right? So you total your car, your insurance company cuts you. You owe $30,000 dollars. The insurance company says. “Well, your car is worth $20,000. Here’s a check for $20,000. What about this other $10,000 that I owe? Well, too bad. You owe that money. If you buy gap insurance, that gap insurance protects you. So that overage, that $10,000 is covered. You’re not responsible for it. Reverse mortgages have that same type of non-recourse gap insurance on them. 

You’re paying a fee for that insurance. You’re paying 2% of the appraised value, and then there’s an ongoing mortgage insurance premium that you’re paying each year as well. That insurance is what makes the reverse mortgage non-recourse. If that scenario plays out, and you’re in your late 90s, you’ve used up all the money from your reverse mortgage, the value of your home let’s say is worth $300,000 but you owe $400,000 on that reverse mortgage, you, your heirs, your estate, they walk away. Walk away. You’ve actually gotten one over on the reverse mortgage lending institution. And the gap, that insurance is going to make them whole. That insurance provided from FHA is going to make the lending institution whole.

So the concept that you’re going to leave a debt to your heirs simply because you have a reverse mortgage, just isn’t the case. I would argue if you structure the reverse mortgage properly and you couple it with other advanced planning strategies, you can actually wind up leaving more to your heirs because you took out a reverse mortgage. And that goes back to what I was talking about before in providing a hedge against sequence of return risks. Using, leveraging, policies like a long-term care insurance policy to protect and preserve your other assets, to allow those assets to continue to grow particularly in times where the market is good, but also when the market is on a decline. The last thing that you want to do is to pull from a depleting asset and then you’re going to deplete that asset and double the time. 

So understanding that you have a lot of wealth in your home. Likely that wealth represents the largest portion of your net worth. There are other options out there as far as long-term care. Life insurance as well. You’re concerned about leaving a legacy. Look into life insurance and then look into one of these life insurance policies that have a long-term care provider as well. There’s just a lot of options that need to be presented in a clear and concise manner. 

Mike Banner:

Right. And let me be clear, because it’s amazing how many people don’t realize this. The reverse mortgage is still a small fraction of the entire mortgage industry. It truly is. So for all you tens of millions of people that have a mortgage, a regular mortgage, a forward mortgage, you have signed personally for that mortgage, okay? A personal guarantee. What does that mean? That means when you’re gone, and we hope that’s not for a long time, and somebody from the mortgage lender calls one of your children, because let’s face it, a small percentage of this country has an estate attorney. They’re going to be calling my older daughter who you know will be making decisions when I leave the planet. 

And if we were in the middle of a recession, they’re going to say, “Tabitha, your dad’s $100,000 upside down on the house.” “Yes, I know.” “Can you pay that?” “Well, I’m not going to pay it. It’s not my mortgage.” “Did dad leave any life insurance? Did dad leave a portfolio? Is there anything in annuities? Is there anything in a savings account?” They’re allowed to do that. You have personally guaranteed that loan. In our world, Steven and my world, in the reverse mortgage world, they’re not even allowed to ask those questions. 

Mom and dad could leave a million dollars in life insurance. But if the house is 100 grand over, 100 grand upside down, they can’t touch it. They don’t even have to know it exists. And it’s amazing people as much as we try and pound this out there, Steven, they just don’t realize that. All right. I’m going to do three statistics now that again if we didn’t know that the public didn’t wrap their arms around reverse mortgages, you’d think we’d be doing 10 times more. 

This is in this article. 58% of older adults in the US have not changed residences in more than 20 years, and that’s the first statistic. And I have to tell you that took me by surprise, but I live in Florida, which is the retirement capital of the United States of America. The average age of a person in Florida, I think the last time I looked was somewhere around 106. But maybe because I do live in Florida where people come to retire that statistic threw me. 58% of adults have not changed residents in more than 20 years. Before I go on with the second statistic, what do you two think about that? Are you seeing that up north, out west, that people are in their home for 20 years? Because I sure as hell don’t see that here in Florida. 

Bill Comfort:

I think it speaks to an idea that’s been held in America for many, many years. And that is the home is an important place. It is emotional. It’s where the family gathers. It’s where the kids were raised. It’s where we’ve had later in life building of memories with a spouse and partner, and kids even. I think the takeaway for this subject, which is continuing to look at long-term care planning in the context of the home and reverse mortgages, people want to stay at home wherever that is. 

Mike Banner:

That’s right.

Bill Comfort:

As much of a home-like setting as possible. And that statistic just reinforces this idea that home and longevity, aging in place, safely aging in place is a really powerful concept for people. And it’s another one of those, you can’t have both ways. You can’t have the home and the home equity and the financial security you’ve built with everything else. If all of a sudden you’re having to put out 5 or 6,000 a month for part-time home care on top of everything else.

Mike Banner:

Yeah. People do have to make a choice and sometimes that’s rough on them, isn’t it, Steven? 

Steven Sless:

I think one thing that we’ve all learned the hard way, this year is home is important. We’re all locked down in our… Well, most of us. And Michael, you’re in Florida. Up north, we have a lot more tighter restrictions than you do down there. Home is a very important place. It’s where the heart is, for sure. It’s also where a lot of the wealth is for sure. This year, we had more conversations with adult children, folks that are my age, folks that are in their late 30s, young 40s, even young 50s saying, “You know what, we want mom and dad to age in a safe place. We don’t want them to go into a nursing home. We don’t want them to go into a long-term care facility.” And there’s a lot of nice, safe long-term care facilities out there. But with the COVID pandemic, I think there’s more of a focus now on aging in place. 

We’ve partnered with a lot of renovation companies this year. We’re helping to retrofit their home and use some reverse mortgage proceeds, use some of that equity in the house to make some customizations to the house, to make it that safe place where mom and dad can live out the rest of their days. So the adult children can have peace of mind that yes, mom and dad are in a safe place or even building in-law suites. We’re helping to design spaces in the house for in-home care representatives to come in, and whether it’s you know building wheelchairs outside. 

Home ownership, being at home, it’s all very important and it is emotional. Now, what I’ve found… This is my 13th year of doing reverse mortgages. I’ve been in the reverse mortgage industry for 13 years. When I first got into the industry, it seems like there was a lot more of an emotional attachment to the home. I don’t want to say that there still… There isn’t now, but I think this generation of baby boomer realizes they don’t have a pension unless they work for the federal government or some large corporation that’s provided them with one. 

They need to get creative in how they’re going to fund a robust retirement where they can maintain some level or improve their level of lifestyle. So I think while there still is this emotional attachment to the home, it’s not as deep of an attachment as maybe 10, 15 years ago. 

Mike Banner:

Yeah. I absolutely agree with that. Now, that was the first statistic. 58% of older adults have not changed residents in 20 years. Here’s the one that says what we’re doing here, and we’re not the only ones doing it, but hopefully we’re doing it better and louder. Here’s the second statistic. 75% of those people who have been there more than 20 years say they have every intention to live in their current home for the rest of their lives. And those same people, the great majority of them never want to be in a nursing home or in a facility. They would prefer to receive care at home. It just brings me back to that staggering thought that I don’t understand, and probably won’t for my whole life is that why don’t those people have a nice low-cost reverse mortgage so they can have an incredible long-term care insurance policy attached with a life insurance policy? 

Am I saying this right, Bill? Attached with a guaranteed refund to premium if they don’t use it. I mean I had so many people have said to me, and remember, I don’t have an insurance license. What I know comes from people like you. But when I bring up long-term care insurance and because I have a passion for it, and they go, “But what if we never use it? It’s such a waste.” You have products, Bill, correct me if I’m wrong. That return, their premium, I mean, can you imagine saying in any other insurance? Let’s say my major medical that at 62 years old since I’m private pay is $1,800 a month. That’s for the next three years until I turn 65. 

It’s a good thing business is good, okay? That’s more than the average house payment in the United States of America. Can you imagine if Blue Cross Blue Shield said to me, “Don’t worry about it. If you never make a claim, we’ll give it back to you.” Are you kidding me? Yet, that’s what your industry does. I know that righter course, it increased the price of the insurance. But it takes all the risk away. I just don’t get it why people are aren’t lined up in the streets with their favorite long-term care insurance person going, “Give me that product that if I never use it, you give me back all the money. Oh, and by the way, take the premium out of my equity and my house because I don’t want to disturb the quality of my life.” Oh my god. 

Bill Comfort:

Right. And here we’re back to this idea that we have these tools that we can use to meet the needs, the desires, the wishes of clients to accomplish other things. I mean, one of the things that I say all the time and it can kind of sound trite, but the policy is not the plan. The long-term care insurance policy is not the plan for care, just like your life insurance policy isn’t your estate plan. The insurance policies provide the money so that your plans just like your investments do for retirement, so that your plans that you have for yourself, for your family, can live out. Can play out the way that you want, intend, hope, even if you have this circumstance that none of us want, which is a need for care. 

But what if you need care, and your spouse, and your kids not only maintain their financial security, but your spouse and kids don’t have to step up to be primary caregivers. They could be care managers because you got enough money cash flow, from the insurance to help pay for that care, that they otherwise would provide or sacrifice the financial security to provide. That’s really the bottom line on long-term care insurance, and the role it plays and how it supports these things, staying at home, wanting to stay at home, aging in place, and so on. Well, we’ll go on. We’ve got some time ahead. 

Mike Banner:

We still got. Yeah, I want to bring up, because you, and Mark, and I had a great show about this a few months ago. I think it was a privilege you know to take care of my father the last 18 months of his life. The last 12 months were a little rough, but the last three months were rough. But you brought up rather than being the caregiver, the care manager. And sometimes to somebody that’s never gone through it like me until this happened 15 years ago, my father I think in many cases throughout the country, the remaining spouse is the caretaker for the one that goes first. 

So my father was the main caretaker for my mother. But when my father was sinking, I became the main caretaker. We had a close relationship. You both know I wrote a book about that. I’m going to get uncool here, but I remember the first time dad had an accident in bed because he couldn’t make it to the bathroom quick enough and I went in to help. I saw it as nothing. I mean, there’s a big strong man and he just didn’t make it because he’s moving slower. It was a good year before his death. He wasn’t immobile. He had all his mental faculties, but he had this terrible, terrible look on his face as I was helping clean up the bed. I said, “What’s the matter? Are you in pain or anything? “No, it’s just you shouldn’t be doing this.” I said, “Of course, I should. This is what I’m supposed to do. You took care of me my whole life. I want to do it.” He goes, “Well, you may want to do it, but I don’t want you to do it. This is not the way it’s supposed to be.” 

So when you say be a care manager rather than a caretaker. When we did decide to bring somebody in, and dad didn’t have long-term care insurance, I didn’t know you guys then, again, fortunately business was good and we could afford it, most people couldn’t. It’s amazing how it allowed me to go back to being the son who loves his dad rather than the son that might have to help him off the toilet because his legs weren’t that strong anymore. 

We had a guest on about six months ago. I don’t know if he wants me to name him because he’s a great guy, but we were talking about sales pitches and we always push here, we don’t do sales pitches for reverse mortgages or long-term care insurance. They are tools and if they are the right tool at the right price. But he said, “Michael, I’ll tell you how I close a lot of long-term care insurance policies.” And I go, “How’s that?” He go, “Well, my children, I have two daughters and they’ll help me if I get sick.” 

He said, “I’d say to them… Close with your two daughters?” “Yes, very. They are insisting they take care of me.” “Think of one of your daughters giving you a bath, and they say, where’s the policy? Where’s the application? Where do I sign?” You don’t think about those things, but like I said your comment of going from a caretaker to a care manager. It made life much easier on dad. A little easier on me. I enjoyed taking care of him. But the more important thing was it made it easier on him to not have his son doing those things. 

Bill Comfort:

Here’s the thing, and all three of us know it because we’re studying each other’s business and listening and learning from each other. Kids will take care of their parents. Spouses will take care of each other, because we love these people and we want to make sure that they’re safe. And it can be rewarding and there’s elements of it that are rewarding. But is that what you want as your primary plan? Because I will tell you without an explicit plan for funding the professional help, the family and the kids are on the hook and all the emotional, if not physical consequences burdens that come with it will be there. 

When somebody says to me, “Well, my kids will take care of me.” Here’s what I say. I look them straight in the eye and I say, “Of course, they will.” Let’s discuss some ways to help your kids and your spouse take care of you better and longer. To take care of you on your terms versus the terms that are dictated by the disability or the impairment. Now, we’re getting you know kind of philosophical here, and, Steven, from your experience, I know we’re seeing reverse mortgages change in terms of the flexibility, all the different dynamic ways that they can be used very creatively as part of an overall financial plan. But there’s sort of two elements here I want to make really clear. 

It’s possible to use a reverse mortgage to fund care, to pay for care either from that monthly payment or out of the line of credit. So that’s one use of a reverse mortgage. And I think that’s sort of what most people think of when you say use a reverse mortgage to fund long-term care. It means paying directly for care. But that’s just self-funding. That’s just self-insuring. You’re using one of your own assets and your own money. That’s okay if that’s what you have to do. But then the other element, I think this new intersection that we’re talking about is using the reverse mortgage to fund long-term care insurance, which opens up even greater possibilities and flexibilities in a financial retirement, if not estate plan. 

Steven Sless:

Absolutely, without a doubt. And I think the last show that we were on together, we talked about, look, there’s a lot of ways that a reverse mortgage can help fund care, of course, but also that long-term care policy. The first way is if long-term care is going to cost you seven, eight, $900 per month, and I’m just throwing those numbers out there, and you have a mortgage payment, which is seven, $800, $900 a month, $1,000 a month, the first thing that a reverse mortgage can do is it can pay off your existing mortgage loan thus eliminating the mandatory mortgage payment. 

Now, you can make payments if you choose to. That’s where the flexibility comes in. A lot of our clients do. They make payments until they can no longer afford to do so or until they just decide later on down the road, “Why am I doing this? It doesn’t make sense. I’d rather spend the money on other things.” So that’s the first way, eliminating the mortgage payment. But the second way is actually leveraging your home equity and converting that home equity into tax-free tangible funds that now you can take and go fund a long-term care insurance policy. 

And you can take those funds from a line of credit. You can take cash out of the reverse mortgage and do it that way. You can turn on a monthly payment to be sent to you every month and then you just turn around and send that monthly payment to the long-term care insurance company. And you can also use the reverse mortgage to… Again, I always come back to advanced planning strategies. We talked about it on the last show delaying social security, freeing up finances, maximizing your retirement. Nest egg. Living an intentional retirement, not a, “Oh, what do I do now?” And it’s a very reactional retirement. But I think, and I know we only have a few minutes left here. 

This conversation, all of this education, it has to reach the folks who don’t think that these things are for them, who don’t think they can afford the long-term care. They don’t understand reverse mortgages. I think for most of those folks, they’ve done a pretty good job of wealth accumulation, wealth distribution, and where to distribute funds in retirement to whether or not to fund a long-term care policy, whether or not to invest in the markets, to be in the markets at all. What type of risk tolerance to take? 

That’s a foreign language to I think most baby boomers and most retirees, and I think that’s where the financial planning community needs to come in, because to me this is all about the three pillars. You have your financial planning. You have your long-term care insurance and you have your reverse mortgage or a traditional mortgage. A traditional mortgage can be used to pay for a long-term care policy as well. But they need to understand that there’s options in the general public that may not look at these financial products as viable options for them, need to just sit down with a professional and just understand them. Understand that distribution is very different than saving and putting money away what you’ve done for the past 30, 40 years.

Mike Banner:

I agree.

Bill Comfort:

I think a takeaway, and you just made me think of this, Steven, a takeaway for people who are watching this show, let’s say, and are intrigued by this idea, how does it work? How might it work? Find a long-term care specialist, a reverse mortgage professional who will truly take the time to educate you even if the sale is not going to happen in a week or a month, but is just willing to invest in your education for the benefit of you and your family. Seek out those professionals and educate yourself. But here’s what strikes me. If this is appealing or of interest, make sure you’re pressing your other advisors to learn about it. 

If they dismiss it and say, “Oh, it’s too expensive or oh, you don’t need long-term care insurance or oh, reverse mortgages are a terrible idea,” don’t be afraid to say, “I’ve been learning some things that are telling me very different.” It’s sometimes hard for folks to say to a planner, or a CPA, or an estate planning attorney.

Steven Sless:

Or your children. I think for most people, their children are their advisors. Have these open conversations with them. Not everybody has a financial planner. 

Bill Comfort:

True. 

Mike Banner:

Children for sure. Yeah, I’ve always said… I’ve had people. I don’t know if you’ve had yet, Steven. It doesn’t happen that often. We only basically have a minute, so I don’t want to spend too much time on this, where somebody says, “My children, or my son, or my daughter really don’t want me to take the reverse mortgage. They want the house to be free and clear when I die.” Now, my employees are not allowed to say this, but my come back to them is, “Wow. I’m just so sorry you have children like that who are putting their inheritance in front of your quality of life.” I mean, I’d like to just smack the shit out of those children. And they’re probably my age or a little younger. 

All right. We got 39 seconds to go. I’m going to invite you both back very soon. Next week, I have one of the largest financial planning voices in the country, David Lykken. Lykken on the Radio has tens and tens of thousands of downloads and we are going to talk a little bit about financial planners and why they’re not jumping in the long-term care world. Bill, I wouldn’t be surprised to see you on that show, I’ll really be honest with you. And maybe Steven Sless.

Bill Comfort:

I’ll be listening one way or the other. 

Mike Banner:

Yeah. And maybe Steven Sless. Thank you guys. We have 10 seconds to go. We’re going to keep riding this out in 2021. We’re going to be doing speaking all over the country together. Thank you to our audience for being here. We appreciate it.

Lowell Melser:

Well, welcome back and this morning’s Consumer Alert, a study by the National Institute on Aging, shows nine out of 10 older Americans wish to stay in their home, and maintain their everyday lifestyle. But for some retirees being able to afford that, may be easier said than done. Reverse mortgage expert, Steven Sless, joins us now, with more. Good morning to you.

Steven Sless:

Good morning, great to be back.

Lowell Melser:

Yeah. This is a hot topic. We got a lot of folks that are heading towards retirement. When we’re looking towards retirement, what are some of the biggest retirement expenses that we’re facing?

Steven Sless:

Housing is number one. Housing, taxes, and healthcare.

Lowell Melser:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). So, then what questions should someone be asking their financial advisor when they’re heading towards retirement? When they’re dealing with all of these expenses?

Steven Sless:

Yeah, I think nine out of 10 homeowners want to remain in-home, and they want to be able to age in place. And so, the first question is, is the house suitable? Are they going to be able to age in place? Or do they maybe need to retrofit the home? Add a wheelchair lift, add maybe a stair lift. So, that’s question number one. Number two is, how do we fund it?

Lowell Melser:

Right.

Steven Sless:

Are we going to be able to age in place? And I think the biggest misconception, Lowell, is that Medicare, or Medicaid is going to cover long-term care, and it doesn’t. And so, there needs to be other avenues for seniors to fund, being able to age in place.

Lowell Melser:

So, how do you know if a reverse mortgage is the answer? Do you have to take a closer look at your finances to see what exactly you can afford?

Steven Sless:

Yeah. I think it comes down to suitability, it’s not for everybody. But housing wealth… Seniors across the country have amassed over $7 trillion in home equity.

Lowell Melser:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Steven Sless:

And so, that home equity is a great resource to be able to use it to fund long-term care. There’s three ways that they can get their hands on housing wealth. That’s a traditional refinance, a home equity line of credit, or a reverse mortgage. The first two options, however, they’re committing themselves to a monthly payment. A 20 year, or a 30 year monthly payment later in life. A reverse mortgage isn’t going to have that payment obligation.

Lowell Melser:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Steven Sless:

So, from a cashflow perspective, it could be a better option to fund, being able to age in place.

Lowell Melser:

And very quickly, when someone’s approaching their financial planner, is there a main question they should be asking? Are there are several questions they should be asking when dealing with this?

Steven Sless:

Several. We like to also be involved in that conversation. We work with financial planners. We work with wealth managers. We also work with a lot of senior attorneys. To be able to have a conversation, “Look, is this a fit? Is it not?” Oftentimes it is. And it’s a great way to add to the existing portfolio to protect, to preserve their assets.

Lowell Melser:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Steven Sless:

But it is a conversation that needs to be had. A deep dive should be done to determine whether it’s a great fit or not.

Lowell Melser:

All right. Sounds good. I got a little time, before retirement. So, we’ll see what comes. Thanks for joining us.

Steven Sless:

Absolutely.

Lowell Melser:

Some good stuff there.

Steven Sless:

Thank you.

Lowell Melser:

All right.

Lee Michaels:

Welcome back to All Things Baltimore. Lee Michaels here, with Steve Sless. He is the man when it comes to reverse mortgages. In fact, what’s the slogan? Get more with…

Steven Sless:

Expect more with Sless

Lee Michaels:

Expect more with… Did you come up with that?

Steven Sless:

I can’t take the credit for coming up with it. My good friend, David Holland, who runs a financial firm down in Florida, I had the opportunity to be on his TV show a few years back, and he coined the phrase, and I trademarked it, and we ran with it.

Lee Michaels:

I’m glad you said that because you’re not just a local force in the area of educating and also helping people apply for reverse mortgages, but you’ve been traveling around the country with the same message, right?

Steven Sless:

Yeah. We’re taking the message national. It’s an important topic. It’s a very misunderstood topic and that is using the wealth that you’ve created in your home by years of paying down your mortgage. Now you’ve put yourself in a position where you can recoup a lot of that wealth and use that wealth to live a better retirement. There’s a lot of education that needs to take place. We want to be on the forefront of bringing that education to the consumer. And Lee, this show has been an amazing platform to do that and the radio, but we want to take that message national as well.

Lee Michaels:

Why has the whole idea of reverse mortgage been so misunderstood?

Steven Sless:

I think it’s a different product now than it was 10 years ago.

Lee Michaels:

Okay. That’s fair.

Steven Sless:

It used to be a loan of last resort. Right?

Lee Michaels:

Okay.

Steven Sless:

You need money, you take out a reverse mortgage. And too often-

Lee Michaels:

So, that’s almost like desperation.

Steven Sless:

Exactly. And it’s not meant to be that. A reverse mortgage is meant to be a financial tool that when incorporated into your overall retirement plan, it can strengthen, protect and preserve your existing portfolio.

Lee Michaels:

So how does one know whether of reverse mortgage fits for them?

Steven Sless:

Got to get educated. Got to get educated. On my website, we have a lot of education on there. I’m happy to have a conversation with anybody to educate them.

Lee Michaels:

Free of charge?

Steven Sless:

Free of charge. We’re education first. Right. The more education I can provide, the more I can empower my clients and their family and their advisors to make a decision that’s going to be best suited for them, then I’m doing my job right.

Lee Michaels:

Now, for our viewers, I’m sure there are some basic requirements that need to be taken into consideration first and foremost before even considering applying for a reverse mortgage and could you give some of those to us?

Steven Sless:

Yeah, absolutely. I think the most important thing is is this the home that you’re going to want to remain at long-term. Right. Again, this is a long-term solution. So, for homeowners who want to age in place in the home they love, it could be a great fit. You have to have about 50% equity in the home. So, if your home is worth-

Lee Michaels:

Okay. So 50 is the number?

Steven Sless:

50 is the number. And that changes depending on how old you are, the older you are, the less that requirement is. But it’s a loan-

Lee Michaels:

Because the expectation is you won’t use as much.

Steven Sless:

It’s based on life expectancy, right, so exactly, you’re not going to use as much if you’re a little bit older. But I would say a good roundabout number for the viewers is 50%. And you have to have reasonably good credit. It doesn’t have to be great. You can certainly be on a fixed income-

Lee Michaels:

Which was going to be my next question, because if you’re talking with or talking about, say, someone who’s in retirement, that’s a fixed income. And does that automatically disqualify them or can they still seriously consider a reverse mortgage?

Steven Sless:

They certainly can. So this is a loan specifically designed for older homeowners, over the age of 62, to be able to age in place. And so, knowing that a lot of these clients are on a fixed income, this is a program that’s going to be a better fit, in many cases, than a traditional mortgage, where the requirements are a lot more strict. If you’re on a fixed income and you try to take out a traditional mortgage, it’s going to be very difficult.

Lee Michaels:

Now, what about the misnomer that once you take a reverse mortgage and something goes wrong, they’re going to take your house. Where did that come from?

Steven Sless:

I’m so happy that you brought that up. So again, we go back to 10-plus years ago, when this was a loan of last resort. You had people taking out a reverse mortgage that probably should have left the home. Right. They already were in a bad position. They couldn’t afford to live in the home. And-

Lee Michaels:

They were already behind.

Steven Sless:

They were already behind. And we’ve talked about this and I’ve used the term, it’s like sticking a bandaid on an open wound. It might be a short-term solution. It might stop the bleeding, but it’s not going to really-

Lee Michaels:

But the wound is not healed.

Steven Sless:

But the wound is not going to be healed. So again, this is a product that is designed to help you protect and preserve your overall retirement plan. It’s not going to be the solution if you already have other issues. But 10 years ago, plus, a lot of homeowners were taking out reverse mortgages that probably shouldn’t have, they were falling behind on their taxes and the insurance after a few years of being in the loan.

Lee Michaels:

Wait a minute. Now, that’s something. And you shared that with me. And I think you need to reiterate that, because even when you take out a reverse mortgage, you still have the obligation to take care of your taxes and insurance.

Steven Sless:

You still own the home. And that’s one of the most common misconceptions is if I take out a reverse mortgage, somehow I’m giving up ownership of my home. That’s anything but the case. At the end of the day, it’s just a mortgage. It’s just a mortgage-

Lee Michaels:

It’s just a mortgage. It’s just uniquely packaged different.

Steven Sless:

Exactly. It’s a mortgage that is tailored for the needs of the aging homeowner to allow them to age in place. Now, we circle back to why the reverse mortgage has a bad reputation? And let’s face it, it does. And we’re trying to dispel a lot of these myths. You had people who were using it as a loan of last resort. They shouldn’t have taken it in the first place. They should have been advised to probably sell the home. They were defaulting on their taxes. And that’s the main requirement of being in a reverse mortgage.

Lee Michaels:

Okay.

Steven Sless:

Regardless whether you have a reverse mortgage or a traditional mortgage or no mortgage, if you don’t pay your taxes, you’re out of the house.

Lee Michaels:

… if you don’t pay the taxes, it’s gone. Right, right.

Steven Sless:

And that’s what was happening. But in the media, you hear, this person had a reverse mortgage and they got foreclosed on.

Lee Michaels:

And that’s the only thing-

Steven Sless:

The whole story doesn’t come out. A reverse mortgage is actually the safest mortgage product on the market. It’s insured and guaranteed by FHA.

Lee Michaels:

Wow. And again, if someone wanted to… Because I’m asking questions that I think you would want to hear the answers to, but if there’s a question that someone watching might have that I didn’t touch on, again, how could they reach you?

Steven Sless:

Yeah, call us, 410-814-7575. Lee, that’s a 24-hour hotline.

Lee Michaels:

Okay.

Steven Sless:

So somebody can call it three in the morning with questions and we’ll make sure your questions are answered.

Lee Michaels:

You’re not going to get up at three in the morning.

Steven Sless:

I won’t, but I’ll call you back in the morning.

Lee Michaels:

Listen-

Steven Sless:

Or morewithsless.com.

Lee Michaels:

That’s great. One other question that I’ve heard is a concern and that is, “Okay, I’m a senior. I take out a reverse mortgage. Upon my transition, my children no longer have an entitlement to the house.”

Steven Sless:

Again, another common misconception. So because you still own the home, you pass the house on to whoever it is you decide to leave the home to. Now, if you pass the house on to your children, your children, upon your passing, will have the option to keep the house or sell the house. If they sell the house, they pay off the reverse mortgage.

Lee Michaels:

The loan.

Steven Sless:

Just like a traditional mortgage through the proceeds of the sale.

Lee Michaels:

And whatever is left they keep?

Steven Sless:

Whatever’s left is theirs to keep. So they still do get to obtain an inheritance from the equity in the home.

Lee Michaels:

What if the child doesn’t want to keep the home? They just sell it?

Steven Sless:

Yeah. Or the child has the option to just walk away. The lender at that point will handle the sale. If there’s any money left, it still goes to the heirs because they are entitled to that money. Just because you take out a reverse mortgage, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re not going to pass on an inheritance. Very often, you actually wind up passing on more of an inheritance, because if you use the wealth in the home, it’s all tax free money, and it allows you to protect your existing stocks, bonds, your other retirement portfolio, and limits the amount that you need to tap into that. But we’ve got to get very strategic and answer some basic questions and provide you with the information that you need to make a well-rounded decision.

Lee Michaels:

There’s so much information that you’re sharing with us. And yet, I kind of get from you that there’s so much more that you can share.

Steven Sless:

So much more.

Lee Michaels:

In fact, I know because we’ve talked about it, that you actually go out and do seminars to educate seniors and the homeowners about the benefits of a reverse mortgage. Are you going to be doing anything soon?

Steven Sless:

Yeah. We’re working on a big seminar coming up in the fall that you’re going to be a part of as well. And we’ve talked about that.

Lee Michaels:

Oh, well, thank you.

Steven Sless:

It’s going to be an Aging in Place Summit, all focused on helping homeowners age in place in the comfort of their own home. We’re going to have some amazing speakers at this event. More information to come. We let the cat out of the bag a little bit.

Lee Michaels:

Just a little bit. Just a little bit. But Steve, I appreciate you stopping by and of course, enlightening and educating the audience about the benefits of, and of course, dispelling some of the misnomers and rumors about a reverse mortgage, which was valid at one point in time, but no longer is the case. And all they need to do is reach out to you to get more information or to have their personal questions addressed. Correct?

Steven Sless:

Absolutely.

Lee Michaels:

Once again, your number is?

Steven Sless:

410-814-7575 or reversebaltimore.com

Lee Michaels:

All right. KSal is up next. And then we’ll have our final guest joining us to close out this afternoon’s program on All Things Baltimore.